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my boyfriend is being so rude all the time these days…
we had a fight the night before his birthday; it was 11pm and there was 1 hour left before his birthday and we drove to the park; there he said he wanted to go for a walk; I was a bit lazy and I said let’s stay in the car for a while and suddenly he wanted to go and sleep; then I said let’s go to the park then but he no longer wanted to go and still wanted to sleep; it was so stupid because he knew we couldn’t get together on his birthday and he didn’t even want to start it with me. I felt really bad. But I decided not to start a fight on his birthday and sent him a message at 00:00 and called him the next day; afterwards everything seemed to be alright until today; I offered to help him clean the house for his upcoming party; he said great and when I asked where he planned to put the stuff he was afraid would break, he accused me of asking stupid questions; he said he knew his house well enough to know where to put it; he’s not usually like that and I don’t get what’s going on; on top of it all we’ve been going out for three years and he’s still hiding me from his parents up to a point where I feel like a f*****g prostitute because we sometimes go to “sleep” at his house and then we sneak out; they’ve seen me only once and we weren’t even going out then; he also won’t meet my parents; sometimes I think I should break up but right now I’m in a position where I don’t have most of my friends around and I know I would die from the break up; I take it very hard every time we have a fight… I don’t know if I should help him tomorrow or if I should go at all; I feel awful right now
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