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What’s the worst relationship advice you’ve gotten?


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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (3 minutes after post)

To re-marry my first wife…..lol…

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Gingerbread offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (3 minutes after post)

To stay married for the sake of the kids.

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innerdialogue offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

wow, those were pretty quick.

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fobchick5 offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

i’m not sure the advice i get from the site is really good

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innerdialogue offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Did you take this advice?

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fobchick5 offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

thats gross but it might work but i wouldn’t do it

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innerdialogue offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I wouln’t want to watch someone else take a dump.

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (12 minutes after post)

more information than i wanted to know

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fobchick5 offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (12 minutes after post)

did u see my other post?

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Gingerbread offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Your cousin is pulling your leg…you must never watch anyone poop!
It will make you go blind! For real!

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fobchick5 offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (13 minutes after post)

thats just wrong on so many levels

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Gingerbread offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Preparation H is good for balding….

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2 years, 11 months ago (14 minutes after post)

QUE????????????

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Gingerbread offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (15 minutes after post)

It won’t make you grow hair, but it will shrink your head to fit what hair you’ve got.

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innerdialogue offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (16 minutes after post)

that’s funny.

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fobchick5 offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (17 minutes after post)

then you’d have one small head

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Gingerbread offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Yep…a comb over.

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Gingerbread offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (18 minutes after post)

I’ve heard that it will smother a chigger…never tried it…make sense to me, though.

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Gingerbread offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (20 minutes after post)

I think we changed the subject from relationship advice to uses for Prep H …Ok by me….

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innerdialogue offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Probably, but I’ve always heard vasoline instead of Prep H. Hey, bad realtionship advice could involve prep h and vasoline. hehe

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Gingerbread offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Prep H will help the bags under your eyes….so there!

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Gingerbread offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Prepovase…Shrinks while you lubricate…..ooohhh…this is not good advice….sorry.

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innerdialogue offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Have no personal experience w/ prep h, but yeah , I’ve heard that.
deadwood, that’s just sooo bad. and not a pretty visual either.

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (24 minutes after post)

The green is usually not greener, AND, with those many children, you better make LOTS of money if you split.

Would recommend seeing a good counselor.

Also, a good Church might help.

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Excuse me, this went in the wrong place…lol..

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Gingerbread offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (26 minutes after post)

I know….I won’t bring that up again….EVER! Hey Inner…if you had to pick one item to take with you to Heaven…what would it be….

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innerdialogue offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (29 minutes after post)

that’s a loaded question, never to be answered correctly. assuming you can’t take physical items, it would be the memories and love of my kids and husband.

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Gingerbread offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (30 minutes after post)

That’s a beautiful answer…can’t think of anything better than that myself.

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innerdialogue offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (33 minutes after post)

well I couldn’t answer my husband and kids because that would be selfish and so wrong. and if I answered any other way it would not be thought through properly.

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Grateful offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Virginia Beach, VA, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (4 hours, 11 minutes after post)

Worst relationship advice? When I was having some issues with my girlfriend, I was told to “Give her space and she will come to appreciate you.”

Turns out, when your relationship isn’t fulfilling, and you give her space, she just finds Mr. Right Now.

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Queen Elizatron 4000 offline Verified User (3 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (17 hours, 19 minutes after post)

The worst advice I got was “Kiss some guy to make your crush to like you more.”

That does not work people! You end up single as heck.

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CRAZYGIRL offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (18 hours, 7 minutes after post)

my worst advice I got was that my boyfriend was cheating on me when he wasn’t

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innerdialogue offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years, 11 months ago (22 hours, 11 minutes after post)

I don’t know if that’s advice or someone just trying to break you guys up, but I had the same thing happen to me. But I really don’t want to get into it.

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ollie-mae offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

well when I was younger in my 20s ……my girlfriends told me to stay and work out my relationship with my husband,was and still is an drinker!
I finally left him 19 years later!
Listen to your heart not what others think you should do …they dont have to sleep with them you do!
I have a little advise ……if the person that is telling you what to do and they are in a bad way themselves go to a professional save your friendship!

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Lilly offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Lewisham, B8, GB | 2 years, 11 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

the worst advice I got?
To forget about the guy I loved and to stay with the guy who loved me.
I didnt follow it though, thanks for that.

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