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Well me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 months

now.And it seems like we’ve known our whole lives.I’m in a process of having a welding job soon.My girlfriend works full time in white which is about 35 minutes away from me. But she doesn’t have a reliable car because the head gasket is messed up on it.My girlfriend is under stress to find a place by September 1st. If she cant find a place then she’s up the creek because she has no where else to go.Where shes living at now shes not on the lease. Her family lives in Springfield, IL. She doesn’t want to go back because she’ll back to where she was before. With no job, car and no boyfriend.When or if she does get a place up in Whitewater and when I get a job and move out. What will happen if we lived like 1 hour away from each other. We wont be able to see each other that much. Because I would have to drive 2 hours or so just to see her.I don’t know if she’ll be able to move in with me or not to share rent and stuff and cook for me because I have a hard time sticking with things on my own.She told she would would like to move in with me but we don’t know if it’s going to happen or not.I’m 29 and shes 24.I don’t think I can be on my own everyday because it scares me.What happens if we break up then we’re stuck where we left off again and we can’t be friends because we’re already are past that point.We love each other very much.We do everything together and it’ll be odd to date somebody else because it wont be the same.I just hope things workout between us you know.I hate to lose her and we’ll be devastated.And my life will be extreme boring without her.And we are so close, like soul mates. We be there and support each other. We didn’t realize that something like this will happen so quickly into our new relationship.I’m just concerned about our future. We want to get married in a few years and have kids.Thats our dream.We hope things workout.I’m 29 and shes 24.She knows everything about relationships and so do i.And she helped her mom for 10 years with her child care business and plus a part time job, cooking for the kids, changing diapers and such.I’m so lucky to have her in my life because cannot imagine myself with anybody else besides her.Shes a heart of gold.

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...Angel... offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

if your girlffriend has nowhere else to live why dont you see if she wants
to move in with ya and see what she says about that

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

my parents told me that she cant move in here

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Orise offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Awwww. :) So sweet. If you guys really truely love eachother, as you say. It should work out. Even if you live an hour away. Though moving in together will help you and her. But it would be kind of soon for just three months. At least i think so. I know how you feel :( I worry about my relastionship. Though i know it wont work out… :( :( Never the less. If you really love her. Dont let go. Make time to come see her if you live far apart. :D And work towards the whole living together thing. If you really think it would help. I hope for the best for you two!

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...Angel... offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

how old are you exactly

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Orise offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Who? Me? IF you ment him, hes 29 as he said.

…Angel… wrote:
how old are you exactly

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Shes not crazy being by herself 5 days a week after she sees me.And we know we really want to be together everyday.I don’t know whats in store for us right now.it makes me cry.I hate the fact that we don’t like saying good bye to each other.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

ok then well dont say goodbye then stay together

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

what i mean we don’t saying goodbye to each other after we spend a whole weekend together. And we have to wait a whole another 5 days

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