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how do you tell someone you love them?

I want to tell my girlfriend i love her but i don’t know if she feels the same way. We’ve been going out for like 3 months and she leaves to collage in like a month and a half. It’s only 2 hours away but i want to tell her how i feel soon i just dont know how

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (1 minute after post)

Repeat after me. “Honey, I love you.” Now, was that easy or what?

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5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

it just seems like a big step and being that she leaves for collage soon i think it could end things or make them allot better so idk i’m just worried

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nitro-5 offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

You need to tell her before she goes otherwise shes going to leave not knowing and that’s not good.

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mem offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (26 minutes after post)

I LoVe YoU!

Buy a card

Think it and look directly into their eyes.

:)

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sheepcoatblack98 offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (43 minutes after post)

she probably feels the same way, because girls are often the ones who want to say ‘i love you’ first but want to wait for the guy to say it. you need to tell her and i agree with littlenick it’s easy “honey, i love you” that’s all. she needs to know before college because if she doesn’t feel the love with you she’s going to think she never will, and now you two will be separated by two hours so…. GO DO IT!

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panicmanic1 offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (49 minutes after post)

If you really love her it should be easy… im sure if you have been going out with her for 3 months she loves you too. i bet it will make her happy if you tell her that. give her a big kiss and look her in the eyes and tell her how you feel! say i love you!

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Hellacious Haro offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

You tell it like you mean it :]
Just tell her exactly how you feel. (unless it’s borderline creepy…)

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days, 18 hours after post)

i sit there on my laptop typing in on google
how to tell a boy you love them
but i dunnah.

just say to her,
babe tbh i worried about telling you this
but i have imense feeling for you and i think
I LOVE YOU x

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latifahgurl81 offline Verified User (3 months) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (2 months after post)

I think you should tell that person you love them before they leave without knowing.
CAuse not letting them know will hurt just as much as you do now. So do it.

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