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My boyfriend broke-up with me without even telling me!

I got over it 5mins later but now I’m having dreams about us arguing. I wish he would stop entering my mind. I want to know how to stop thinking about him. Help me please! It’s eating me alive!

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patrix offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

I think the problem is you didn’t get closure. You need that to move on. I would suggest confronting him, nice or mean, but you need the ending

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Awellma offline Verified User (4 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

You are sooo right! Thanks! The only problem is that we go to different schools. I can call him but I want a way to talk to him and he can’t hang up or get away. Any ideas?

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patrix offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

you could try and call him to arrange a time to meet. If he can’t talk to you in person it could be cus it hurts him too. Which means he still has feelings for you. If he doesn’t talk then at least you could text or email him how you feel then you can at least say you did what you needed to do. Just make sure you say everything you need to

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Awellma offline Verified User (4 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Thanx! I’ll try it!

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LostandUnfound offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

WOW. My ex did the same thing.
Some boys are lame.

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Awellma offline Verified User (4 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

I know girl, When Sasha told me that he was going around telling people that we had broke-up, I wanted to hunt him down, rip his arms off, and poke him with them till he cried for mercy! but luckly that only lasted for 5 mins. so no humans were hurt in the making of that day! Plus I’m simi-pacifist. Which means I fight when necicary. :o)

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R.A.M offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

Well, this another stage of getting used to it…
I know it hurts, being alone and not knowing for sure why…
As patrix says closure of some sort is useful…
But dont worry!

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Awellma offline Verified User (4 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

Yeah, I’m gonna call him and ask him but if he hangs up, at last I know I did my part! :o)

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LostandUnfound offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

Awellma wrote:
I know girl, When Sasha told me that he was going around telling people that we had broke-up, I wanted to hunt him down, rip his arms off, and poke him with them till he cried for mercy! but luckly that only lasted for 5 mins. so no humans were hurt in the making of that day! Plus I’m simi-pacifist. Which means I fight when necicary. :o)

You handled it much much better than I did! ha.

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