Love help: my girlfriend dumped me becuase we argue a lot over stupid things we had been dating for a year. - Help.com

Change show her that you don’t want to fight and that you mean the world to her. Maybe just be there for her now that she has decided not to be together anymore maybe just keep a distance but tell her that you will always be there for her or something.

Maybe just tell her that no matter how much she may hate you that you can’t and will never hate her and that you love her a lot and can’t stand to be without her.

To me, it sounds like she just wants to get over you, so she is indeed going out with this other kid because she wants to feel loved again and she wants to feel like she can be herself without constantly fighting. Maybe just just wants to experiment with other guys to see how they are. I’ve been with my boyfriend of over a year as well and we fight all the time basically everyday, I suggested we take a break and we have been on one for almost an entire week now. I know I’ve wanted to break up with him before because I felt that we fought too much and it was almost as if we were tired of each other and didnt bother to try with each other anymore and it also seemed like we didn’t love each other as much. Maybe she just needs this time with someone else to see that she really does need you.

If she is truly in love with you, she will miss you too much to be away from you. Just try to give it some time and see how it goes. If she is still going out with this boy, I would suggest trying to move on because if she does stay with him for a long time, that might mean that she did in fact move on herself because maybe her feelings for you did change after all the fighting and constant stress of knowing that you guys will fight all the time.

Hope this helps! :)

Maybe its because she doesn’t want to go through with the fighting. But I also agree with the other person. If she does end up breaking up with the guy she’s with now, try to tell her how much you love her and that you would do anything to get her back. If she feels that your being stalkerish by telling her the way you feel about her, that’s not right. If that’s the case then I would strongly suggest just trying to move on.

Good luck!!

let her go she will crawl back to u . . .trust me