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my grandmother passed away recently.

even after informing about the incident, my so called best friend didnt even show up..either at the funeral or afterwards (except for sending an SMS) he lives in the same city as me.

Im very much irritated at this as I have always been there for him.

Wot to do…we’ve been friends since school and now we’re 30…im known for talking straight…should I tell him how agitated I am at his behaviour?!?

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xoxjaime offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Yes, you should tell him. Explain exactly how you feel.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Sure tell him. However, he might have his own reasons why he did not show up. Hear him out before you scold him. And then be ready for whatever comes next. You might lose your friend over this. However, if he’s not now worth having as a friend, then he’s not much of friend anyway.

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kinshuk offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
New Delhi, 07, IN | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

“a friend in need is a friend indeed” Jst tell him how you feel about the whole thing if he’s your childhood friend he’ll understand.

Say what guys?

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4 months, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

Thanks, most of you agree with what i think…but im like in 2 minds..
1 to talk to him on this or
2 to not even mention a thing and act normal abut not show up when he needs or help him

Its his birthday today…im not officially in town to attend!! though i did call and wish.

Im confused…i was very attached to my grandmom and he knew it and still a no show!!

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