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I don’t understand what your question is.

my last experience? well it involved this really cute guy a met at a club, he liked me and i liked him, we were really into eachother and one day he got pissed at me because he has trust issues and stopped talking to me… i really like the guy but i guess that wasnt enough… if you want more details you can read my other posts.

Yesh, we all get these feelings. I hate it sometimes if I know I can’t be with the guy, but sometimes it’s amazing cuz I’ll get random bursts of confidence. Just try your best to snatch him, but if you don’t get the guy, there’s plenty of fish in the sea!

i did try everything i knew possible, but in the end i wrote him a long email (because he wasnt talking to me and i needed to tell him a lot of stuff) saying that i had no idea what was wrong and that i cared about him… i also told him that i wasnt going to bother him again if he didnt reply, and he didnt. love sucks sometimes but your right when you find someone who really cares about you it gives you awesome burst of confidence! i love that feeling

Heh heh heh to the P.S I love you bit.

Love is a many things. Love unifies. It can shape you. All you need is love … everyone’s doing it!

However, I think you’re talking about separation and loss - one of the possible post-loving side effects. And to that - well **** happens. You’ll bounce back, with probably a little more insight.

Love is liking someone better than yourself

Love is being stupid together

Love is when you cant sleep because your reality is better than your dreams.

Is that good??

i always end up loving somone who likes me as a friend
ill never find any one :/
and im fat and ugly so that doesnt help

Kanabi wrote:
Love is liking someone better than yourself

Love is being stupid together

Love is when you cant sleep because your reality is better than your dreams.

Is that good??

thats brilliant Kanabi
i wish i had that :’(

I met a girl - Abi, i fell in love with her. We became very close friends, i always wanted mroe than that. She would never get with me, so i found someone else - Alex. Then suddenly when i was with Alex, Abi todl me she wanted more than a friendship with me. I didn’t give in and stuck with my girlfriend Alex, who still is two years on. But i’m always thinking about Abi. Always thinking what if, what if i had have gone with her? Would it have worked? Would it have only lasted a month? I’m still wandering if i made the right decision. I’m still in love with Abi, she was my first love. Do i go for it, or stick with my 2 year girlfriend Alex.?

Totally-Retro wrote:
I met a girl - Abi, i fell in love with her. We became very close friends, i always wanted mroe than that. She would never get with me, so i found someone else - Alex. Then suddenly when i was with Alex, Abi todl me she wanted more than a friendship with me. I didn’t give in and stuck with my girlfriend Alex, who still is two years on. But i’m always thinking about Abi. Always thinking what if, what if i had have gone with her? Would it have worked? Would it have only lasted a month? I’m still wandering if i made the right decision. I’m still in love with Abi, she was my first love. Do i go for it, or stick with my 2 year girlfriend Alex.?

who do you love more?

Totally-Retro wrote:
I met a girl - Abi, i fell in love with her. We became very close friends, i always wanted mroe than that. She would never get with me, so i found someone else - Alex. Then suddenly when i was with Alex, Abi todl me she wanted more than a friendship with me. I didn’t give in and stuck with my girlfriend Alex, who still is two years on. But i’m always thinking about Abi. Always thinking what if, what if i had have gone with her? Would it have worked? Would it have only lasted a month? I’m still wandering if i made the right decision. I’m still in love with Abi, she was my first love. Do i go for it, or stick with my 2 year girlfriend Alex.?

Well what sounds worse to you?

Giving up your current girlfriend or going on having never had the chance with the other girl?

In my opinion, if you really wanted your girlfriend you wouldn’t have this problem.

bobthebuilder{#}^_^ wrote:

Totally-Retro wrote:
I met a girl - Abi, i fell in love with her. We became very close friends, i always wanted mroe than that. She would never get with me, so i found someone else - Alex. Then suddenly when i was with Alex, Abi todl me she wanted more than a friendship with me. I didn’t give in and stuck with my girlfriend Alex, who still is two years on. But i’m always thinking about Abi. Always thinking what if, what if i had have gone with her? Would it have worked? Would it have only lasted a month? I’m still wandering if i made the right decision. I’m still in love with Abi, she was my first love. Do i go for it, or stick with my 2 year girlfriend Alex.?

who do you love more?

If i knew that i wouldn’t be in this mess!

thelma.dair wrote:

Totally-Retro wrote:
I met a girl - Abi, i fell in love with her. We became very close friends, i always wanted mroe than that. She would never get with me, so i found someone else - Alex. Then suddenly when i was with Alex, Abi todl me she wanted more than a friendship with me. I didn’t give in and stuck with my girlfriend Alex, who still is two years on. But i’m always thinking about Abi. Always thinking what if, what if i had have gone with her? Would it have worked? Would it have only lasted a month? I’m still wandering if i made the right decision. I’m still in love with Abi, she was my first love. Do i go for it, or stick with my 2 year girlfriend Alex.?

Well what sounds worse to you?

Giving up your current girlfriend or going on having never had the chance with the other girl?

In my opinion, if you really wanted your girlfriend you wouldn’t have this problem.

The thing that sounds the worst to me is giving up my current girlfriend. Breaking her heart for something that might not even work, or even happen.

Totally-Retro wrote:

thelma.dair wrote:

Totally-Retro wrote:
I met a girl - Abi, i fell in love with her. We became very close friends, i always wanted mroe than that. She would never get with me, so i found someone else - Alex. Then suddenly when i was with Alex, Abi todl me she wanted more than a friendship with me. I didn’t give in and stuck with my girlfriend Alex, who still is two years on. But i’m always thinking about Abi. Always thinking what if, what if i had have gone with her? Would it have worked? Would it have only lasted a month? I’m still wandering if i made the right decision. I’m still in love with Abi, she was my first love. Do i go for it, or stick with my 2 year girlfriend Alex.?

Well what sounds worse to you?

Giving up your current girlfriend or going on having never had the chance with the other girl?

In my opinion, if you really wanted your girlfriend you wouldn’t have this problem.

The thing that sounds the worst to me is giving up my current girlfriend. Breaking her heart for something that might not even work, or even happen.

You shouldn’t stay with her out of fear of breaking her heart if you didn’t. You should stay with her because you want her an no one else.

Let’s say it did work out and you and this other girl get along great - would it still be worse?

thelma.dair wrote:

Totally-Retro wrote:

thelma.dair wrote:

Totally-Retro wrote:
I met a girl - Abi, i fell in love with her. We became very close friends, i always wanted mroe than that. She would never get with me, so i found someone else - Alex. Then suddenly when i was with Alex, Abi todl me she wanted more than a friendship with me. I didn’t give in and stuck with my girlfriend Alex, who still is two years on. But i’m always thinking about Abi. Always thinking what if, what if i had have gone with her? Would it have worked? Would it have only lasted a month? I’m still wandering if i made the right decision. I’m still in love with Abi, she was my first love. Do i go for it, or stick with my 2 year girlfriend Alex.?

Well what sounds worse to you?

Giving up your current girlfriend or going on having never had the chance with the other girl?

In my opinion, if you really wanted your girlfriend you wouldn’t have this problem.

The thing that sounds the worst to me is giving up my current girlfriend. Breaking her heart for something that might not even work, or even happen.

You shouldn’t stay with her out of fear of breaking her heart if you didn’t. You should stay with her because you want her an no one else.

Let’s say it did work out and you and this other girl get along great - would it still be worse?

I would say so yee, because i’ve still been selfish. Of course i love my current girlfriend. And after 2 year it’s not so easy just to leave her for someone else, and she wouldn’t take it well. But this other girl has always been there at the back of my mind.

Totally-Retro wrote:

thelma.dair wrote:

Totally-Retro wrote:

thelma.dair wrote:

Totally-Retro wrote:
I met a girl - Abi, i fell in love with her. We became very close friends, i always wanted mroe than that. She would never get with me, so i found someone else - Alex. Then suddenly when i was with Alex, Abi todl me she wanted more than a friendship with me. I didn’t give in and stuck with my girlfriend Alex, who still is two years on. But i’m always thinking about Abi. Always thinking what if, what if i had have gone with her? Would it have worked? Would it have only lasted a month? I’m still wandering if i made the right decision. I’m still in love with Abi, she was my first love. Do i go for it, or stick with my 2 year girlfriend Alex.?

Well what sounds worse to you?

Giving up your current girlfriend or going on having never had the chance with the other girl?

In my opinion, if you really wanted your girlfriend you wouldn’t have this problem.

The thing that sounds the worst to me is giving up my current girlfriend. Breaking her heart for something that might not even work, or even happen.

You shouldn’t stay with her out of fear of breaking her heart if you didn’t. You should stay with her because you want her an no one else.

Let’s say it did work out and you and this other girl get along great - would it still be worse?

I would say so yee, because i’ve still been selfish. Of course i love my current girlfriend. And after 2 year it’s not so easy just to leave her for someone else, and she wouldn’t take it well. But this other girl has always been there at the back of my mind.

Then its hard to tell because more then likely you wont ever be satisfied with either because you’ll be wondering about the other.

And nobody takes well to breaking up with someone they love. That’s not the point of breaking up.

I would just rather be with someone that wants me and thinks that there’s no one else right for them - wouldn’t you? Wouldn’t you want her to be with someone who thinks she is number 1?