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my friends are all the same except me… they talk about boys… i talk about animals… they talk about clothes and makeup… i talk about school and homework… i’m completley different form them. Should I change? I know someone like them is in me somewhere… so should i try to bring it out?

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thelma.dair offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

No. You should be whoever you are. Whatever feels right to YOU. DO NOT change yourself to fit with other people. Find people that you fit with naturally.

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4 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

no never compramise who yu are to fit in with anyone. you should find some new friends that share the similar interest and still hang out with your old friends so that you can be more balanced and not feel so left out.

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tomars offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

Teen angst is a horrible thing. We all go through it, boys and girls. Some sooner than others, some later. I remember when I was a teenager, I spent so much time worrying about what others thought about me. Now, as an adult, I realize,they weren’t thinking as much about me as they were themselves. Don’t change who you are, time will do that for you. The age old saying applies here, “just be yourself”, and the rest will all come together just fine. You’ll know when you are ready to make changes, because it’ll happen naturally.

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