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I (yes, sketchely) know my boyfriends email address password and on my email I realized that I can found out my google web history on it.

So I decided to try it on his. I found that he had stopped the logging back in december but I found that he was looking at all these gay porn sites! And often. And other weird gay things. Many people think he might be gay but I figured that he wasnt because we kiss. I don’t want to confront him about it because of obvious stalking reasons, but I don’t know what to do! I tried saying that I only wanted to be friends with him but that didn’t work because he told me he really likes me. HELP!

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Sylentia offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
London, H9, GB | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

You don’t mention how old either of you are. It doesn’t mean he’s gay, he might just be curious. If that’s the case you need to be supportive of him.

Rather than “out” him aggressively, ask him gently to talk about how he feels, what he’s attracted to, maybe mention “so&so said you might be gay, how does that make you feel?”. Let him know that it’s ok and you can work through it together.

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4 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 3 minutes after post)

umm wait and let him make the first move at the subject?

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osueh offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (3 weeks, 5 days after post)

I was a homophobic before i have met gay friend from online. But they are very pathetic that they don’t wanna show what they have been. They done date with girl to cover their case. You should to check out your boyfriend manner. If he show something same as gay, he is really a gay.

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3 months, 4 weeks ago (4 weeks, 1 day after post)

thats not true…

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