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well my friends are both going out with the same boy.

i dont know if i should tell one or the other. i am really confused, what should i do. i dont want to reck any friendships, or start any drama…..i need HELP!

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infinity offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

If you see something wrong happening and you can prevent it from happening by speaking, in my opinion, you should certainly speak. Think you are going out with some guy a friend of yours is going out with too. Let us assume there is a third friend who can see all this happening. How would you feel if you come to know that this third friend, in spite of knowing everything, never informed you?

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

tell them both! make a girls night, and invite them both. then, when they seem pretty calm, tell them. dont just let this jerk get away with it!

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 28 minutes after post)

THANK YOU both sooo much! i really appreciate the support! I even called them both and explained what i knew and saw. I don’t know what they’re gonna do about this guy. They both say he is so cute and charming, but on the inside i know hes a player! well, hes S.O.L, because now they both know. I just really hope, that by me telling what i knew and thought, that i didnt ruin any friendships or start drama. I just hope we can all make it past this and not ruin our friendships since the 5TH GRADE! ^-^ well, now all i know is: JERKS SUCK!!!!!

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Help me with: Should I stick with what I wanna do, or fall for peer pressure?

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