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i really ran out of hope, i don’t wanna live anymore,

i hate lmy life.i hate being here, i need help, somebody please tell me what to do , i wanna move out of the house and out of the whole country! i’m being abused constantly, my father’s only goal in life is to see me suffer and i can’t go away cos people would send me back to him. i wanna get a job outside the country so i could disappear for good, but the problem is always the visa, how can i get it? help me!

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Anonymous #
4 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Which country are you currently located in? And how old are you?

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rimania6 offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

i’m in tunisia, i’m 20 y.o

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dx_harsh offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

If you’re 20 could you look to get a study visa and go to study in some other country? Obtaining a job directly may be a bit tougher but if you go to grad school somewhere, you may be able to land a job..

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Anonymous #
4 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Hmm are you trained in any area - have any special skills?
Do you need a visa to travel within the African continent?

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Anonymous #
4 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

But why do you want to run away from your family darling?

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rimania6 offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

i tried to get a student visa but you know it’s very complicated when you don’t have your parents’ ok. and i have lots of skilles i paint , act, sing and i’m doing a lot scientific research, call me crazy but i wanna be an inventor.but you know i couldn’t concentrate on that with all the hell i’m going through.

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dx_harsh offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

Well countries like US/UK require certain amount of financial backing and hence you would need your parents to back you. I am pretty confident there may be countries that don’t.

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Anonymous #
4 months, 2 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

hmmm, I agree with dx_harsh - perhaps you could look for other countries. For instance… you could apply to be a teacher in Japan… or… something on those lines… What about Saudi Arabia?

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 11 minutes after post)

well anonymous i’m very glad that you went from zero to hero, that’s pretty much my only goal in life, you wanna know what my father does? well do you got 20 years?
my father is pure evil, he hits me to the point that he broke my arm, he hits my mother too, he never spent money on me and doesn’t allow to get a job either, he lies to people to make them hate me, he stalks me all the time, he locks me up in the house for days………..and the list goes on and on.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 20 minutes after post)

go where?
i already told you i don’t know where to go
my e mail is i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 23 minutes after post)

e mail rimania60 at yahoo dot com

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 59 minutes after post)

thanks anonymous

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dx_harsh offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 33 minutes after post)

what’s your educational background. Can you think about being on your own

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cheereo offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

Like one anonymous poster has said, there’re always people far worse off than you. Do not ever think about committing suicide, that doesn’t solve any problems. It only ends the current problems, but are you happy to know that you could actually solve the problems and come out victorious, yet chose to end it without trying?

What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. You have survived through the previous years, very soon, you will be able to fly out of the hellhole and have a really wonderful life.

:)

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eternal_life offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 days, 20 hours after post)

Hi Rimania,

I know someone who sees all that you are going through and is there to help if you will call out to him. He is my best friend and his name is Jesus! He loves you and so do I. Just ask him to show his love to you, ask him to come and live inside of you and you will receive peace and love and the strength to get through. Let him be the God of your life and you will see how much life there is to live. Jesus has an awesome plan for your life. Love and Blessings, David

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SnowAngel77 offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (6 days, 22 hours after post)

Hi Rimania,

It’s a hard place you are, and have been, living in. As cheereo says you have survived up to now but I would still go with what Anonymous says:

Anonymous wrote:
you need to get out of your house no pack your bags and get the next train/boat/bus/plane get out of there please!!! just go tonight give me your email and we can keep in contact xx

Is there any way you can get some money? There are planty of companies that offer you the option of Volunteer work overseas. Would this be a possibility? It’s hard when you are on your own - you don’t have any relatives close by that you can talk to or trust do you? I hope in the last few days (since the previous post) something has happened to sort your life out for you.

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