do i really make guys feel guilty? - Help.com

nope. its just another break up line dat guys use.

Have you stopped to think that you might be rushing into relationships?

You can’t make someone love you. And we guys lie, dear. Whenever we feel it’s in our best interests.
I wouldn’t waste any time worrying over any imagined fault in yourself; just get out there, meet people, have fun and see what develops.

Oh, and Sandycheek; I’ve seen some obscure replies before, but WTF?

My pleasure, dear.
And remember; Not all men are liars. Some are dead.

You need to take your time in the next relationship. Now that you said you’re not rushing, maybe you should become more analytical of the next guy you’re going to go out with before you go out with him.

Oh play. For sure. But in a nice way, not nasty or mean or spiteful.
A Lady must preserve her mystery,after all.

Yeah, over-analysis will drive you crazy. In the end, you can never really know what goes on in someone else’s head. The best you can hope for if trusting your instincts, and working hard to make your relationships honest and sharing and fun.
We guys don’t all lie about everything, all the time. But we frequently practise damage limitation and say what we think you wanna hear. Learn to trust your heart, and work hard to make the next guy open his to you. Good luck.

paranoiaman wrote:
My pleasure, dear.
And remember; Not all men are liars. Some are dead.

Hahahahaha!!!! Thats so great!

I don’t know your ex, so it’s somewhat wrong to presuppose, but I’d guess he hopes that if things don’t pan out as he’d hoped, he can always hook up with you when he’s drunk and desperate.
Otherwise, he’d still want you as a friend NOW, rather than later, hmmm?

If you walked into a car dealer and said I will take this car if you give me $1,000 off and the salesman right away says yes, what’s your initial reation?? That there must be something wrong with the car!!! I honestly think this applies to the way men feel about women, they want what is just out of their reach and if they fight hard enough to get it and they acheive it, then they think they’ve got something!!! If it come’s to them too easy they think there’s something wrong or that they can do better. Make sense? So make your next potential boyfriend WORK FOR IT A BIT HARDER!

sandycheek wrote:
Dear Anonymous,

I think you are wrong, i am an easy going girl not EASY got it? :D

D*mn! All that hard work, typing replies for nothing ;-)

Why thank you, ma’am. I’m here all week. T shirts and CD’s available in the lobby.
You stick by your guns. Any guy worth YOUR effort will be one who’s prepared to make his own superhuman effort just to make you smile. If he’s more interested in what’s in your pants than what’s in your heart, throw him back on the pile and look for the next hopeful.
Good luck, and don’t lose hope. Mister Right IS out there. It just might take a few wrong turns to find him. But wrong turns can be a fun filled mystery tour of their own. And if not, well, they make all kinda wonderful, battery powered friends, these days ;-)