Why do people always come to me to tell their secrets?
Naturally I am a bit of a gossip so it is so difficult not to tell anyone but so many people recently have asked if they can talk to me in confidence. I dont have a problem with it but Im just wondering.
Do I have confidant written across my head or something?
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well from what little i know of you, you come across as trustworhy and almost unnervingly easy to talk to, either that or you just have a sympathetic face :p
Now, but as beautiful as you are and as angelic as your face is, you look like a person who would be trustworthy and able to keep a secret.
I would tell you all my secrets!
Eh.
Some people are just easy to talk to I guess.
I’m sure you’ve shown quite a couple of times that you’re not a judgmental person perhaps that’s why.
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Haha, thanks you guys. I just find it odd because Im not one of those “I love that we have this secret we share” people, I am a bit of a gossip and I just wonder why they would choose me to tell. Even people I barely know.
Perhaps you seem like an open person who wont cross judge them
lots of people ask to know stuff as well, for example i know i can be too nosey sometimes, maybe by not asking to know people’s secrets you inadvertently encourage them to? like a sort of accidental reverse psychology.
Maybe it’s Karma, nudging you in the direction of being there for someone who needs a trustworthy ear, to let them unburden in confidence, to atone for your prattling, loose-tongued past? ;-)
they tell you because they know that you are a Blubber Mouth and cant keep Secrets…
Barbyman wrote:
they tell you because they know that you are a Blubber Mouth and cant keep Secrets…
I can, I just hate doing it
I cant keep Secrets and i dont want to know Secrets but my next song on the 2nd Album has ….. I have secrets i could never tell
The Reason is im going to Hell
I got cars in Red ,White and Blue
But im not happy,because i miss you
barbyman.com
Can I tell you a thing, people do the same to me in a way, in addition I also tend to show up on the “radar” for autistic people somehow.
This guy at the busstop actually told me all about his autism/ADD and that I somehow showed up on his radar, he used the exact words that I was thinking just the day before that - I had this whole conversation with him, it was great.
Commander Ikari wrote:
because postsecret is too picky.
love it ^_^
Because your so trustworthy and your a very good listener and i alwasy seem to find help in the answeres you give me. Your a very appreciated person and we all love you!
You know, it’s a compliment to know that people feel that you’re trustworthy. But if it gets to be too much, you could always tell them that you have problems or your own.
paranoiaman wrote:
Maybe it’s Karma, nudging you in the direction of being there for someone who needs a trustworthy ear, to let them unburden in confidence, to atone for your prattling, loose-tongued past? ;-)
I like that. Might be?
I’ve been thinking - maybe people trust you because you do not tell lies, because you are a honest person and they can see that somehow (even if you can not see that in yourself); there must be compassion shining in your heart.
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