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I have trouble, and I don’t know who to ask for help.

Therefore I hope you can help my finding one who can help me.

I’ll start at the beginning.

First I’d had problem with my father, he hates me because I’m gay. My mother was crazy she kicked and hit me whit different things. And I had no friends to back me up. At the time.

Therefore I running far away from home and tried to kill myself multiple times.

I was lucky to get a dog, because he saved my from doing the bad thing of killing myself. So I love him. He was by my side for almost 8 years then he got cancer.

Ohh I cried for days. But I had to have someone to take care of, so I don’t get suicidal once more. So now I have a beautiful Great Dane and a Siberian Husky.

Just ended a bad relationship with my X-boyfriend (6- 7 month ago), but we still live in the same house, this is not good, he tortures me mentally and want me out of the house. I was stupid to be with him in the first place.

But I can’t afford a flat. As a side effect I have to use Cipralex (a drug) to help with the depressive mind I’m in. I might have to start on Dexamin, this is a strong drug with amphetamine to make me less sluggish/ apathetic. Hope I don’t have to start on this drug. Also goes to a shrink, to try to make things better.

Whit all these problems I have, expenses over due, and can’t get help from a bank (bad credit).

I have a job of course, but the pay is low (about 1150 USD a moth), and it’s hard to get a better job when I don’t have a education papers.

Please help my find one who can help my with some cash, just so I can climb over the edge.

I’d did get friends, after I moved. My home town is a small place, and when people are different they are not accepted. They have changed now, and things is better. And I moved home after 4 years on the run.
I have friends now, my mom and I have talked about old times, now all is good between us.

I know money don’t make happiness, it is friends and family who make it so. This is way I mowed home to give the town, friends and family one more chance.

But still, I need help. Please. When you know of one who would help, please contact my. Sorry for the bad English. I live in Norway

Thanks

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even_loy changed the tags on this post: they were "Money, depressed, Help" 4 months, 2 weeks ago.

even_loy edited this post 4 months, 2 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

Hi.

I have trouble, and I don’t know who to ask for help. Therefore I hope you can help my finding one who can help me.

I’ll start at the beginning.

First I’d had problem with my father, he hates me because I’m gay. My mother was crazy she kicked and hit me whit different things. And I had no friends to back me up. At the time.

Therefore I running far away from home and tried to kill myself multiple times.

I was lucky to get a dog, because he saved my from doing the bad thing of killing myself. So I love him. He was by my side for almost 8 years then he got cancer.

Ohh I cried for days. But I had to have someone to take care of, so I don’t get suicidal once more. So now I have a beautiful Great Dane and a Siberian Husky.

Just ended a bad relationship with my X-boyfriend (6- 7 month ago), but we still live in the same house, this is not good, he tortures me mentally and want me out of the house. I was stupid to be with him in the first place.

But I can’t afford a flat. As a side effect I have to use Cipralex (a drug) to help with the depressive mind I’m in. I might have to start on Dexamin, this is a strong drug with amphetamine to make me less sluggish/ apathetic. Hope I don’t have to start on this drug. Also goes to a shrink, to try to make things better.

Whit all these problems I have, expenses over due, and can’t get help from a bank (bad credit).

I have a job of course, but the pay is low (about 1150 USD a moth), and it’s hard to get a better job when I don’t have a education papers.

Please help my find one who can help my with some cash, just so I can climb over the edge.

I’d did get friends, after I moved. My home town is a small place, and when people are different they are not accepted. They have changed now, and things is better. And I moved home after 4 years on the run.
I have friends now, my mom and I have talked about old times, now all is good between us.

I know money don’t make happiness, it is friends and family who make it so. This is way I mowed home to give the town, friends and family one more chance.

But still, I need help. Please. When you know of one who would help, please contact my. Sorry for the bad English. I live in Norway


Thanks

even_loy edited this post 4 months, 2 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

Hi.

I have trouble, and I don’t know who to ask for help. Therefore I hope you can help my finding one who can help me.

I’ll start at the beginning.

First I’d had problem with my father, he hates me because I’m gay. My mother was crazy she kicked and hit me whit different things. And I had no friends to back me up. At the time.

Therefore I running far away from home and tried to kill myself multiple times.

I was lucky to get a dog, because he saved my from doing the bad thing of killing myself. So I love him. He was by my side for almost 8 years then he got cancer.

Ohh I cried for days. But I had to have someone to take care of, so I don’t get suicidal once more. So now I have a beautiful Great Dane and a Siberian Husky.

Just ended a bad relationship with my X-boyfriend (6- 7 month ago), but we still live in the same house, this is not good, he tortures me mentally and want me out of the house. I was stupid to be with him in the first place.

But I can’t afford a flat. As a side effect I have to use Cipralex (a drug) to help with the depressive mind I’m in. I might have to start on Dexamin, this is a strong drug with amphetamine to make me less sluggish/ apathetic. Hope I don’t have to start on this drug. Also goes to a shrink, to try to make things better.

Whit all these problems I have, expenses over due, and can’t get help from a bank (bad credit).

I have a job of course, but the pay is low (about 1150 USD a moth), and it’s hard to get a better job when I don’t have a education papers.

Please help my find one who can help my with some cash, just so I can climb over the edge.

I’d did get friends, after I moved. My home town is a small place, and when people are different they are not accepted. They have changed now, and things is better. And I moved home after 4 years on the run.
I have friends now, my mom and I have talked about old times, now all is good between us.

I know money don’t make happiness, it is friends and family who make it so. This is way I mowed home to give the town, friends and family one more chance.

But still, I need help. Please. When you know of one who would help, please contact my. Sorry for the bad English. I live in Norway


Thanks

suddin13 offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

What exactly do u need help with??

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turnthismothaou offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

If you and your mom are on good terms, can you asked her for help? Or even your close friends that care about you? Any chance they would let you move in temporarily? I went through some tough times myself and I had to move in with my best friend to get back on my feet. It is a difficult question to ask. It could hopefully help you save some $ to pay off your debt. Good luck my friend.

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even_loy offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 56 minutes after post)

I have 2 dogs, therefore is it difficult to move in with a friend, for just a few months.
My mom can’t help. I have a little brother with asthma and allergies and he can’t come in contact with animals.

And with my money problem I don’t know of en one who can help at all. I have over 80.000,- USD in bad credit. So I beg someone to help me with some cash. Yes this is a begging letter.

When it comes to a place to live, I have applied a application to my home town. with a letter from my doctor and shrink. That say I need to move out. But they can’t promise anything

My X-boyfriend also threaten to kill my when I’m sleeping. So I have to lock the door before I can get to sleep. I also have to use sleeping pills to sleep and feel refresh in the morning. But still I can’t sleep for more than 4-6 hours each night.

And I’m often worn out, just to be myself.

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4 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 33 minutes after post)

Wow i just read your post and am sorry to hear about all the crap your going thru. i have no idea what that feels like. i just hope to hear that things get better. and thank you for telling me about this.

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even_loy offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (11 hours, 17 minutes after post)

NP and TY

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even_loy changed the tags on this post: they were "Money, depressed, Help" 4 months, 2 weeks ago.

even_loy changed the tags on this post: they were "Money, depressed, Help, finances, suicidal, brakup" 4 months, 2 weeks ago.

even_loy offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

No one know how to help my?
Maybe I need some pointers, or suggestion to deal whit the money problem.

Maybe you know about a corporation, firm, company, organization, celebrity, or private person of some sort that may want to help my.

Please help, and share your idea, then I can try to realize it.

I really need help. It feels like I’m up to my neck whit quicksand/mud and need some one to pull me up.

I have almost no food left, and in the last 2-3 month I have lost almost 45 pound (20 Kilo).
As a consequence of little or no food.

My mom live about 2-3 hours away by car, and to dad it is 3-4 hours driving. Or about 160 kilometer (ca 100 Miles) to mom and 240Km (150 miles) to dad. Just to get some food.

And the gasoline is expensive.
The price is about 2.11 Us Dollar for 1 Liter, or 2.11 Us Dollar to get 0,26 gallon. And 1 gallon is almost 4 Liter.
On average the price for gasoline is 2.528 US dollar for 1 gallon. So in Norway we have to pay about 8,44 US Dollars for 1 gallon (ca 4 Liter). And the price going up a little every 14 days.

And therefor a drive to mom or dad is to expensive at the moment. The price to drive to mom, and home is about 70 US Dollars if the car uses 0,8 Liter (0,21 Gallon) for 10 Kilometer (every 6,2 miles).

Hope this calculation is easy to understand.

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turnthismothaou offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

Man, you need some tough love. How did you get so far in debt? So, if someone gives you cash, everything’s hunky dorry?

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even_loy offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

Things will get a whole lot better, if I get some cash.
But still I’ll have problems, like still living whit my crazy X. And on various drugs to get through the day.

If I’ll find a new place to live, get rid of the money problem and the drugs. Then things will be good enough.

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cascadia offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (1 month after post)

Sosiale tjenester er tilgjengelige for deg:

http://www.regjeringen.no/nn/dep/hod….

Lykke til!

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MatthewConnolly575 offline Verified User (3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Man im sorry to hear about your problems im in a similar boat. I am currently getting discharged from the military, It will be a general discharge because since i have joined i have become an alcholic. Now im not your average alcholoic, i am a AirForce FireFighter and have devoted the past 6 years of my life to helping people but i have major issues with depression. I also drink to hide things from my past and i am in recovery but the military has told me that my drinking is to much for them to handle so now they are sending me home. The thing of it is when i told my parents they said i wasnt allowed home and that they didnt want to see me which made me feel lonley and scared. Being 21 years old and having no where to go with no job is scary as ****. I have called everyone i know to find a place to crash but it is dam immpossible everyone has there own problems and cant take on another person. I have a possible job lined up for me on the outside but its difficult to go from serving your country to being a normal eprson once again. I would give anything to be able to stay in and serve my country i am a true patriot and would give my life for anyone in the world or anyone on here. its just with my job the bad calls i see and my past i turn to drinking when i am sad and i drink my problems away. IDK man i guess we all have our own problems but anyone have any advice for me?

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

You are so young and are a good person. Stop the drinking. It’s true, families care, but don’t know how to help. You need to find a sponsor - it may take trying a few different meetings places, etc., and you may have to try a few sponsors before finding the right one. Call 411 information and ask for AA groups in your area. Write the number down and call immediately. You cannot cannot cannot do it alone. I know. It works. Do it.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Hey don’t feel so bad. Family is most important - but they do not know how to help. Call 411 and get number for AA group in your area - call immediately. Tell them you may need someone to help you go. Second - when you get to meeting, tell leader that you want to talk to a few potential sponsors. Interview them. Pick best one - save yourself some time this way all the way around. Then, work with them. The secret - the whole thing - be honest but try.

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cascadia offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

Here, try this:

http://www.oefoif.va.gov/

They should be able to help with housing and transition problems, including your alcoholism. Sign up soon, as you have five years after separation to take advantage of the services offered.

Good luck to you!

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