Acceptance help: why is it only the weird guys like me? - Help.com

Do you really want someone normal? They tend to be assholes. Then you’ll have to come on here and post “why do only assholes like me?”

I like weird guys lol

Ah I see, well that’s a little more difficult.

ameliaearthlin wrote:
I like weird guys lol

Hope exists :P

How do you mean weird? Like socially inept, or just eccentric?

If you mean socially inept, then maybe you seem like a nice girl who wouldn’t hold prejudice against them, which is why they go for you.

If you mean eccentric, then like Snar said, it’s not always a bad thing :)

How old are you? You will probably find that as you get older, guys of your age won’t be so ‘kooky’ anyway. In which case the ‘weird guys’ won’t be so weird anymore.

Snar wrote:

ameliaearthlin wrote:
I like weird guys lol

Hope exists :P

lol

So young. why don’t you give these guys a chance? one of them might be the man of your dreams.

same problem :( :’(

Ahh, no problem ashhleyy :)

ashhleyy wrote:
have u experienced somthing like this befor??

Nope, because in all honesty, I’m pretty shallow when it comes to guys!

ashhleyy wrote:
joshy: i thought of that many times, and actually tried it. im really not shallow, but it was awful=( i forced myself to date him, and i actually cried about it for a week. i felt awful, and we both just got hurt in the end. i really rather not do that again.

lol didn’t say force yourself :P said give them a chance, or at least the time of day to speak to them.

They are just young, Crushes feel huge at that age haha. Well, just continue on your way, don’t date anyone you don’t want to and just ignore all those people who fancy you hehe :) Wish more people fancied me :P

ashhleyy wrote:
haha=D thank you. and I’m sure people like u, u just don’t know it lol

I’m sure they do :) but its something that’s nice to know haha :D
I know one person likes me and shes the important ONE lol

ashhleyy wrote:
well then thats all that matters=D and trust me i know, everyone wants to be liked,let alone know it lol

you seem like a lovely girl, very polite genuine and honest :) if you keep that up you wont have a problem finding yourself a nice guy.

ashhleyy wrote:
thanku josh=) i just tell it like it is haha. i hope ur right, i feel like hes out there, and hes looking for me….but he just doesnt know were i am right at the moment=P

:D don’t look, Smile laugh and enjoy your life and wait for him to turn up ;) that the way to do it :)

ashhleyy wrote:
and if no one comes??=/

keep smiling and having a good time :)
trust me that how it works, Worked for me.
works for a lot of people.

Try it :)

ashhleyy wrote:
haha, thats all i do. i love to smile=) and for a while i accepted it, and i still do, but like i said everyone likes to be liked, in a certain special way i guess u can say lol. but i just wont think about it as much. there was a time were i would just ignore it, and now just recently my mind started to go again….oh and i added your twitter if u dont mind=)

That’s why my twitters on here.

Don’t ignore your feelings, learn to accept them :)

ashhleyy wrote:
yea ur right!=D thank u so much! i feel much better.

No problem :D Glad to help.