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Apparently i was supposed to have noticed this years ago.

Apparently i’m blind to my own feelings. Obviously, I NEED HELP!!! I have feelings for my best friend. He’s amazing. I guess a few friends of mine had guessed that one day i would wake up and realize “OMG, i have a major thing for my best friend”. I wish someone would have told me this!! Actaually, they probably did and i probably ignored them, or told them that they were ridiculous and embarassing themselves. I’m the embarassed one now. I feel terrible about the way i feel. It feels wrong to have more than platonic thoughts about him and i kinda wish i wasn’t thinking about him differently. I wanna take a chance on him, but i’m so terrified to. If i ever lost him as a friend it would break my heart and i don’t think that i would recover from the blow completely, or if i did it wouldn’t be for a very long time. He’s so precious to me, so very precious, i need a little help, and probably someone to just talk to. I’m going insane by myself. Being alone is my worst enemy right now…i’m thinking about him way to much and that makes me feel a little sick, good/ bad sick…if that’s possible.
PLZ help me…any little bit of help would be wonderful. Thank you.

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4 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

i think i’ve been through something very similar to this. i didn’t have the courage to tell him too and it was driving me crazy. one thing i did though, i tried (in a very subtle way) making him a little bit jealous for me to tell if he has feelings for me too. anyway, i forgot what happened coz it was maybe 4 years ago. but i ended up not telling him and just getting over him. the friendship was too precious for me.

it’s up to you if you feel like you can tell him. i obviously can’t. if you can’t too, i’m sure you can get over it. it doesn’t sound very reassuring right now but you will.

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Jacob.rondon offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

if he was really your best friend he would always stay by your side no matter what. i say you take the chance and talk to him about your feelings cause a true best friend would never leave your side.
hope that was helpful

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kagome10 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Hi, and I now how you feel. Liking someone sucks xD.
Anyways I think you should now take more notes of how he is towards you and maybe he likes you like you like him. And if he really is your friend and really cares for you he would never stop being your friend even if you tell him you like him. So don’t worry, because if you really want something the universe will get it to you ;)

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~*~MsGreenEyes~*~ offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (10 hours, 59 minutes after post)

Thank you…i think i might try to get up the courage to tell him…it might be worth it…?

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