boyfriend help: Is it weird that my boyfriend and his best guy friend want to be “clones” of each other? - Help.com

maybe they just REALLy like each other haha

They’ll get back to what you might consider a “normal” level eventually. They will eventually annoy each other although it surely won’t happen as soon as you’d like it. I’d suggest you just live with it for now. Do they both have very many friends in general?

Don’t be mad. Probably just a phase. Who cares if he wants to dress like his friend’s twin? It’s usually girls who do that but does it really matter? r u jealous he seems to like his friend more than you? Probably doesn’t. I mean, do you really want him dressing like you, trying to be YOUR clone? :)

Lol… that is a little, odd? And childish?

Thanks for the replies.

@Anon: They’re not like that haha

@rnick: They have other friends but they’re the type of people that get annoyed fast with anybody that looks at them the wrong way. I’m guessing they hang out with each other the most because they haven’t annoyed each other yet and theres nobody else they trust the most. But is that an excuse to totally change so they look and act exactly alike?

@Cell: I guess I’m a little jealous that every other thing he tells me involves a story or what not of his friend. And if he ever wanted to be a straight up clone of me I would tell him right out that he should stop trying to be like someone else. But since he’s trying to be exactly like his friend, its a little more sensitive because I don’t want to be the b*tch that makes him pick between his friend or his girlfriend.

Also, we’re the type of people that make fun of fakes and people trying to hard to be like someone else. I try to stay the way I am and my boyfriend even points out and makes fun of actions that I do whenever, for example, I try to change myself to look like that model on TV. But now he’s trying to be like his friend and I don’t know whether he’s aware that he’s changing the way he looks and the way he acts just to be a fake.

Hell, his friend is into cars and now he’s spending all his money to pimp out his so it could be just as good. Its cool that he has a hobby and of course hobbies are taken up when you see other people doing it but when he’s telling me of the new, for example, stereo system he wants to put in he says, “Well *friend’s name* has an insane system and now I want one just like his or even better! It’ll be mad cool!” Can’t he just accept what he has? Maybe its just a guy thing I don’t know but that would be better than him getting something worth a ton of money just because his friend has one.

@Pepsi: And yea, I think its a bit childish the way he’s acting.