I have a boyfriend who seems to ignore me or just not talk to me for periods of a week, which makes we wonder if he really does love me.

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I have a boyfriend who seems to ignore me or just not talk to me for periods of a week, which makes we wonder if he really does love me.

WHen i do talk to him it seems he always says “sorry hun it’s me not you”, yet he tells me he’s mad at me but doesn’t know exactly why. It seems that when i try to text him or call he doesn’t answer which makes me worry if I did something wrong. It seems like our entire relationship is a rollarcoaster of emotions. I know that they loves me and i know i love him, its just i don’t really know what to do wtih him sometimes. Can anyone gives some light unto my situation???

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Anonymous #
4 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Maybe something is actually wrong with him..if he is always blaming you for stuff, and getting upset with you, something could be bothering him. Or he could just be a horrible person… If you really love him, you will talk to him about it and if he insists nothing is wrong.. maybe he isn’t what you thought he was.

kitt e 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

Yeah…I wonder if he might be along the lines of a bi-polar. If that’s the problem, he might need some type of help, because he’s letting it out on you. If he doesn’t have depression problems, then he is treating you completely wrong for no reason. If you haven’t done anything wrong, he has no right to be angry at you. Sound like too much meaningless drama! That has to be stressing you out, being treated that way. I’d start pulling back from him little by little if I were you..but that’s just an idea.

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littlenick 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

Maybe he’s drepressed?

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hateTHEhate 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

when you get this kind of hot and cold reaction from your boyfriend - its usually because he’s not sure how into you he is.

“its not you, its me” is kind of a lame excuse. if someone loves you - they show it.

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Bluecat 2 #
Dracut, MA, US | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 58 minutes after post)

I agree with hateTHEhate.

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