I need some advice.
So my girlfriend and I have been going out 11 months and the other night I fingered her and she gave me a handjob. It was the first time we ever did anything besides makeout. I waited for her to be 100% okay with the decision and didnt presseure her into it whatsoever. Now today she tells me that she doesnt want to do that stuff anymore because she feels that it will make it harder when we both go off to college (were going to different schools). I really want to keep doing those things we did the other night because it helps me to feel closer to her. It looks as if that is not going to happen. I want to know if you think I should continue dating her or if I should break up with her? Becasue this is a pretty big difference of opinion that we have and I dont know if we could work it out.
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