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hi long story short my boyfriend who i have a baby

with has been setting up secret accounts and messagging girls from it, he is also giving out his numba to girls he has met once and sometimes not at all. can some one pls help me as to what to do. i am open to any ideas. i would break up with him but i love him extremli, sometimes i find myself wishing that im able to jus go and flirt with boys or give out my number to men who take an intrest in me… i am seriousli at my wits end and i dnt know wat to do.. can sum1 pls help me its driving me extremli crazy.

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xxangel027xx offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

okay lets create a scene shall we…
you come home sometime in the future from work/college or somewhere your bf said he’d pick you son/daughter up from nursery/school.. he invites a girl over.. you come home and she’s gone then your son/daughter walks up to and says mommy what does sh*g mean? and you say ill tell you when your older why? or some words to those effects so your son / daughter replies well i heard daddy say this to (name) and then he was on top of her doing something…
what would you do? as now its not only effecting you its effecting your child if you stay with this man/ lad (as he’s acting) toddlers/ babies arent stupid you know…
my advice would be to leave him yes you love him to bits yes it’ll break your heart but i bet if your child could talk like u and i they would ask why did you stay with him and let him treat you this way.. my mom done the same to my real dad when i was a baby because she was out with me at her moms and my real dad was sh*gging some women in my moms and his bed she had me in her arms and walked in as she thought he was asleep.. she left him and now is with a man who is faithful..
moral of the story..
get rid of him you deserve to be treated better it might be hard now but it gets easier in time otherwise things could get worse and that scene could play right in front of your eyes like it did with my mom im glad she left him otherwise god knows what i could of turned out like…

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (7 hours, 38 minutes after post)

I don’t mean to be rude but if he is doing things like that then it means one of two things, Either he is with you untill he finds a better option or he thinks he can mess about and use you as his backup. Men do not secretly message other women unless they are after the obvious. Do you really want to be with someone that is not totally devoted to you? Free yourself before its too late, By the way im male and know how us men think, trust me girl get out before you get really hurt.

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