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i am going crazy can someone help me?

My dad bugs me too much about the smallest things, and he always screams nand there’s never an actual converstaion amongst us in the fmaily. he Thinks he’s a know it all and im not being stubburn, i am a very self conscious person, which i get that from my father, and i hate it. im always thinking about the stupidest things, analyzing the smallest things. My dad has always wanted to know everything about what im doing etc…..i guess thats where i get it from…but i still get pretty scared at the way i look at things sometimes. help me please

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patticake80 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (32 minutes after post)

I wish I knew how to help you…feel like I am going crazy myself today. Try to forget about your dad…he must be scared if he questions you so much…just be YOU, and find something you LOVE to do and DO It….Take care of yourself…your dad has his own issues….I am an older lady(57)and I live alone and my kids never call or stay in touch and I am just lonely…I am going to bed early and hope tommorrow will be a better day…God Bless you kiddo…I will remember you in my prayers tonite. Love Patti

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Xero* offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

Sounds a lot like my father a few years back.
What worked for me, was finding common ground with him.
For example: He’s a big fan of The Beatles, so I decided to play them when he starts to get mad or when he freaks out about something.
It calmed him down just enough so I can reason with him.

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