Boy help: theres this boy i like and he sorta likes me too .i want to go - Help.com

Why doesn’t he just break up with his gf and go out with you?

Well he either is a idiot, and just wants two girls on the girl and that is why he won’t break up with his girlfriend or talk about her to you. Or he could either like you both and un sure of what he wants himself. OR he just likes you alot and doesn’t know how to break up with her… If he doesn’t do it soon enough, then tell him straight that it’s either you or her because someone is gonna get hurt in the end.

Are you serious? You like a boy who has a girlfriend and you want advice on what to do? First, you’re too young and immature based on your question. I’m not trying to be mean, but what I am saying is that you are crazy to even think about going after a boy who obviously is playing the field. Unfortunately, this is what boys and men do so you have to figure out the truth on your own. The best advice I can give to you is to stay away from any boy/man who is in a relationship unless you are willing to be another notch on his belt because this is what will end up having. Why waste your time on someone playing the field unless that is what you are looking for as well. If you want to be in a relationship, which I personally feel you aren’t ready for, would you even consider anyone who is already in one. You know the answer and know what you should do, but the fact that you can’t have him because someone else does is driving you more crazy than the illusion that you think you really like this guy. There are so many people out there and unless you thrive for having negative drama in your life I say look else where. More importantly, I am going to guess that you are fairly young and would say educate yourself with school and if you are old enough to do so, get a job so you can learn the responsibility of taking care of yourself before worrying about how to try and steal a boy from another girl. Sorry, but I don’t believe in skirting the issue when it comes to growing up and although you hopefully learn lessons from past actions, I don’t see any reason to suffer if you don’t have to. Unfortunately, I guarantee that you will suffer from many decisions you are going to make if you continue to think the way you do right now. Good luck and I hope for all the best for you.

this is me um i think im old enough and ready. we were friends first and actaully i really dont knw wat to do. as u can see i have tried to stop talking to him but he always comes back cause were supposed to be friends.im not a boyfriend stealer thats not wat i do otherwise i would have gone out of my way to do anything for him to break up with her which i havent . as u have read i havent done anything more tan kiss with the guy.ive been through alot of things but i just posted this cause i really need some advice if u didnt want to be mean then u shouldnt have said anything at all but thanks for the advice. i dont feel like im wasting my time because when it all comes down to the basic were just friend i just want it to be more than that and i knw he wants that to im not forcing anything on him its his decision he could have been said no.

He seems like a player?

I’d still move on regardless. Like the person above stated, sounds like a player. But, then again, its your life and lessons you will soon learn if you continue to be taken by this boy you believe is so fantastic. My apologies again, but I think things like this deserve to be told like we see them especially if we have the life experience behind it. You obviously do not or you would not need to ask for advice on this particular subject. One day, you’ll thank everyone trying to help you out on this one, but for now, I believe you will get emotionally hurt in the end because it feels like you are going to pursue this boy. Sometimes you have to hurt to learn the ropes of being used by guys who have no issues with doing so and their only pursuit is to tag as many girls/women as they can. Sorry and good luck to you.