friends help: heyy well im 13 years old & & my mom and my dad were together for 30 years & married and had 3 kids, me & my to older sisters. - Help.com



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heyy well im 13 years old & & my mom and my dad were together for 30 years & married and had 3 kids, me & my to older sisters.

well in febuary my dad passed away with a heart attack. it took my a while to get my self back together but i found my way,same for my mom & sisters. but anyways my mom is talking to the guy and she says that they are JUST friendds but i say that there more than that. i dont know what to do because he was my dads best friend but best friends dont take there girl especially after he dies. thats, to me, called a backstabber. & i cant see anybodyy with my mama expect my deddy. what do i do ? and how do i handle this ?

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

Oh girl i know how you feel. when my dad passed away i was like you .Any Men near my Mum i didn’t like. See like my Mum lived after my dad for another25 Years and no one should live alone or having a Friend or friends of both genders . Eventually i gave in and all i wanted was to see my Mum Happy.no one can replace your Daddy or your Mum You will see it is not easy for your Mum to be alone .You will grow up go to parties ,have Friends but Life is not easy when one lost a Love one. every so often go to barbyman.com and listen to Happy Birthday it was meant for occasions like this .I wrote it for my Mum…

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

remember that sits her that needs to be happy. because even though you lost your dad.. you still have your mother and i hope you want the best for her. i know better than anybody how it feels to lose a parent..

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (45 minutes after post)

and if you feel the need, i can talk to you about it. 6783828175 text me if you need someone to talk to.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (3 days, 14 hours after post)

Oh my gosh this is in like movies and stuff. First of all, I’m very sorry I don’t know what I would do if I lost my dad and I think it’s really sweet you care so much about your mom. Maybe your mom’s talking to your dad’s friend because it makes her feel like a part of him has come back to her. A best friend and a wife are extremely special relationships to a man and they probably knew him better than anyone else. Maybe they are helping eachother to move on.

My Advice: If your mom says they’re “just friends” you have no reason not to believe her. And if somewhere down the road they become more than that, support her. It is good that she is happy.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (3 days, 14 hours after post)

AND watch the movie Catch and Release, it’ll help!

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