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i may have abandonment issues, ive never been in a

long term relatioship, i need to have people around me all the time an can be almost suicidal when alone.
my dad left when i was a baby, 2, i’m only 10 months older than my brother, and my mother is the type that directs all affection at 1 person at a time, ignoring everyone else, ie; my brother, leaving me mostly with my sister. who was 5 at the time
i was bullied throughout my teens, in and out of school.
im mid twentys now and angry, have been since i was 3, (according to family)
i dont trust anybody and ive lost alot of good friends thru this, which doesnt help

its exhausting and i want it to stop, ive tried anti-deprssants and counseling, and im still the same

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

Well, it sounds like you know exactly what your problems are. It’s up to you now to overcome them and make yourself a better person. Nothing is changing your past, so you have to work with what you’ve got.

You should attempt to mend things where possible (ie. with your mother) and get over everything that has happened to you. Create new relationships and allow yourself to develop fully. Good luck.

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