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I feel as though I am dying of lonlieness…

..like I am not even alive or breathing or worth anything when I am not being held or hugged by someone…..the disconnection and lack of human contact is killing me…..I am all alone and hating it and can’t take much more! :,,,,,(

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deenj1286 offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

i know what u feel like i cant sleep i feel like the world is just here like i have no reason to be alive, but the other half of my wants to like, but the sad part is that i dont know for what, i think that every thing is my fault, and it really hurts i dont know what to do …

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I sleep as much as possible - because being awake is just too painful. All I want is to have someone to hold me whenever I need to feel “connected”…..is that so much to ask? I feel like I have been a good person, so why am I being punished?

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

i dont know i feel like i’m being punished all the time? i use to sleep but … i really dont know what happend i guess i started to remember all of the bad things that happened in my life and i blame them on me… i just feel bad because my friend killed him self and he told me how he was going to kill him slef a year ago but i just thought that he was jocking, yeah i stoped talking to him this year and and towards the beging of the year i asked him if he was ok that he looked deppressed and he just said that he was fine…. then for some reason i was just mad at him and started to hate him for some reason later that year he died, and i just dont know what to do with my self…. what happend to u? i never told any one all of this… so i think that it would be better if u talked about it. give it a try … what is making you so sad or lonly?

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guster32 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

Things that happen trigger these emotions. Sleep is a wonderful thing when you need to escape but after awhile you need to rejoin the living. If there cannot be enough humans there, you can always get a friend at a shelter that will love you no matter what.They don’tmind you waking them up in the middle of the night and they listen until you are through talking without interrupting. Sometimes only spiritual guidance can fill our hearts, and sometimes that doesnt’ work, not every time. So, you have to have back up,like a furry friend that needs you too. You are needy,so give some of yourself to a charity or a furry friend and try and fill that void. You must have suffered some trauma. There are support groups out there with people just like you longing to connect with someone. Go for it.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 20 hours after post)

Sometimes, I feel the same way. I try to shun away that feeling by doing things to occupy that space like doing good to others. Never feel satisfied of what you do. Do *more* good. It’s not really easy, mind you. There isn’t anything easy in this world. Everything is so complex because we see the most simple ones the hardest.
You can also take care of flowers or an animal. For me, they make me happy especially when flowers I take care of actually live. :P
Just like what guster32 wrote, friends and spiritual guidance can fill your heart. I actually found solace in my stranger-now-friend since we both have things in common. As for spiritual guidance, it’s really effective (at least for me). As a Catholic, when I go Mass, read the Bible, reflect in one corner or just simply praying, I feel that I’ve been enlightened. Why? I don’t know myself. You could also talk to your family about it. They’re your family so don’t be shy to confide your feelings.
Or you could talk to anyone out here on the net. Just like what guster32 wrote there are support groups who can help you.
Remember, you are not alone and I am hoping you can overcome this~!!

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