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i think ppl post on help.com so that they can be sure on their decisions before they make actions u kno to get a second opinion on stuff

Well said. It’s always helpful to get others opinions, but its important to try to handle them on your own as well. Think of it this way, how would you be able to cope when your on your own and have no one to help you?

Most people don’t like feeling pain though. Yeah, it is easier this way, and that’s ok. I don’t think I think about my problems any less…I just get some support from here. That’s what we need sometimes.

Sodapop wrote:
Well said. It’s always helpful to get others opinions, but its important to try to handle them on your own as well. Think of it this way, how would you be able to cope when your on your own and have no one to help you?

thats what i mean

I overthink things allot, so having another perspective can be really helpful.

I hardly ever post. So I really don’t connect with what you’re saying. I just like to be here and be silly and annoying. That does not require too much thinking on my part.

littlenick wrote:
I hardly ever post. So I really don’t connect with what you’re saying. I just like to be here and be silly and annoying. That does not require too much thinking on my part.

haha lilnick ur not annoying

thinking of ur own problem is trying to see a black spot on ur head, you just wont see it unless you use a mirror, so if you dont own a mirror and are having a hard time to find one, you just ask a friend to tell you where that black spot is… ^_^

tricky wrote:
thinking of ur own problem is trying to see a black spot on ur head, you just wont see it unless you use a mirror, so if you dont own a mirror and are having a hard time to find one, you just ask a friend to tell you where that black spot is… ^_^

Is this like asking someone “does this look infected to you?”

littlenick wrote:

tricky wrote:
thinking of ur own problem is trying to see a black spot on ur head, you just wont see it unless you use a mirror, so if you dont own a mirror and are having a hard time to find one, you just ask a friend to tell you where that black spot is… ^_^

Is this like asking someone “does this look infected to you?”

same thing :P

Lovestruck wrote:

littlenick wrote:
I hardly ever post. So I really don’t connect with what you’re saying. I just like to be here and be silly and annoying. That does not require too much thinking on my part.

haha lilnick ur not annoying

u have no idea!

littlenick wrote:

Lovestruck wrote:

littlenick wrote:
I hardly ever post. So I really don’t connect with what you’re saying. I just like to be here and be silly and annoying. That does not require too much thinking on my part.

haha lilnick ur not annoying

u have no idea!

trademark :P

littlenick wrote:

Lovestruck wrote:

littlenick wrote:
I hardly ever post. So I really don’t connect with what you’re saying. I just like to be here and be silly and annoying. That does not require too much thinking on my part.

haha lilnick ur not annoying

u have no idea!

ok lol

From my 2 years here, it has taught me so so much, the most important is a problem shared is a problem halved, all the advice in the world is worth nothing if you dont put it into actions, so I dont think it is lazy to get a small amount of guidence when things are getting you down

i’ve been here over 2 years and only posted 3 times.

applying problem solving to other people’s problems helps me put my own into perspective. it also forces me to think about people around me in a different way which is good… they could just as easily be help.com posters and i shouldn’t objectify them.