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i dont know where my boyfriend is!

i hav a long distance relationship with my bf and im not in the mood for people to tell me those relationships dont work out so please dont. he always calls or send me a message or emails me if he isnt going to b home. last time i talked to him was tuesday. on wednesday he was online and thats the last ive heard of him. im really worried. i called him and he doesnt pick up. he isnt online. im scared. wat if something happened to him. im really really really worried. to know that im so far away and i dont know if he is okay. i dont have any other number to call him at. and im just scared. i have his schools phone number and he goes to volunteer during weekdays. should i call the skool? can someone just give me advice and help me ease my mind please!!!!

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Have you gone without talking to him for this long or longer before?

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lexihope offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

no never!

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

hmmm…don’t call school…just wait for him to contact you

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

And you don’t have any other number or text address or email to contact him? And how are far are you and him apart?

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lexihope offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

i only hav his cell and his email accounts and he hasnt been on in any. im pretty far. :( im in cali and lets just say he is way across the country

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

okay this happened to me with my bf he lives far from me too. just let him conact u worse that could happen is that his phone is broke

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lexihope offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

and his computer broke too? wat if hes in the hospital or something?

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Don’t you have any family member’s family number that you can contact?

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lexihope offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

no! because all this time, we hav been dating secretly! its a long story! i just dont have any other number!

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

okay stop shouting at us omg. drama queen . geez okay the only option u have is to stay near ur phone

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Wow. So I guess the only think you can do is wait for him to contact you again, uh?

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lexihope offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

o gosh! i cant help it! im usually not a drama queen. i really am not. but im worried sick here! omg! i cant do anything else but wait. :”””’(

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

yes wait i did and he was just really depressed he might have a problem like a family problem just wait

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lexihope offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

well im kinda worried because he messed up his shoulder and might need surgery and im scared that he didnt tell me so i wouldnt get worried. last time he was in the hospital for the night and he didnt tell me so i wouldnt worry. so im scared hes in the hospital.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

listen to this song by yellow card its called “believe”

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lexihope offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

okay thanks :) is it gonna help

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

idk lol its a cool song tho

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lexihope offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

lol it is a good song. i just heard it on youtube. it did help especially the everything is going to be alright repeating itself over and over agian lol.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

lol thats y i told u to listen to it cuz of that part

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lexihope offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

lol thanks. it helped meanwhile i listen to it lol but i am once again anxious. and worried :(

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Arnday the Imbroglio offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

4 days woman, its 4 days youve not heard from him

wouldnt be suprised if he cant answer because he’s buried under the sheer number of messages youve probably sent, im sure theres some perfectly innocent reason hes not called you in a the past 4 days

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lexihope offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

well its never been like tat and actually no i have only left him two messages for ur information.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

i freaked when my man didnt call let her freak too lets all freak

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lexihope offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 1 minute after post)

yes lets freak becaue this is a freaky situation :(

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lexihope offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (4 hours, 53 minutes after post)

i found my boyfriend! he was somewhere protesting and he almost got arrested lol its allllll goooooddddd :))))))))))))))

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day after post)

omg lol thats good i guess

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