Love help: I am a 35 year old female and I am in love with a 19 year old man. - Help.com

no problems as long as he is good with it .are you good to him is he good to you . just remember when you are 55 he will be 39 looking at younger women keep it in shape

Wrong? How can it be wrong if he is legal, likes the relationship, and you are happy? The only problem I foresee is peer pressure from his friends,and believe me, it has a tractor beam attached to him that pulls and pulls. I know this because I had a lot of feelings for a 26 y/o when I was 50! I was never asked out by anybody over 35,and of course I looked about 35. I am still very young looking for 55, and still get asked out by younger men, who are great. He may wind up being too immature to handle the peer pressure, but enjoy while you can. I have had patients whose wives were older than them and so has my best friend. She has experienced the older woman-younger male relationship dynamics with her patients. If he is mature enough, it could be the love of your life. If it’s not and just there for awhile,at least you have the experience of it. It was joyous for me at times and I kept up with him quite easily. I didn’t look that much older than him. and besides, I am the type person that I don’t give a rat’s behind what people think. They need to mind their own business until you ask for their advice and make it their business. They are just miserable and don’t want anybody else to be happy. Go for it, and see what happens. Take care of your heart, and don’t worry about the neighbors.

COUGAR

and besides, no body ever says anything about old geezers dating 20 year olds!

yeah, and what are 80 y/o geezers called when they date a 20 y/o? Let’s think of a catchy name for them besides old geezers. Oh,it’s okay for the guys but not the women. Look in the Bible, and you will find lots of men with younger women and vice-versa. If it is love, age doesn’t matter for old geezers of cougars. It just is. Period. Nothing wrong with either. Life is too freakin’ short for people to point fingers and be judgemental about love. If it works great, and not,so what,at least they tried. As long as it’s legal, I say go for it. You never know when and where and with whom you will find love, and if you let age hinder you with this, you are self-limiting and your prospects of spending your life with someone that truly loves you are lowered. Never say never, or you will. It is the law.

keep the package nice

becouse old geezers have money and that is all the 20 y/os want

Yeah, but the couples I have seen the men are mature and they adore their older wives.

ya ok kegals

Heres whats gonna happen…

You decide to stay together.
Your friends and family dissagree with your relationship… and u loose contact with many, and those u do stay in contact with wont look u in the eye or respect your relationship.
You move in together..
Whenever u r out u r asked if u r his mother or older sister.
He will eventually miss being a young man.
He will cheat on u with someone his own age
u will get a broken heart..

good answer

I resent the “kegals” comment but will consider the source, anonymous.Maybe and maybe not. Are you willing to call up Ashton and Demi and tell them of your infinite wisdom or do they not count because they are Hollywood royalty? I mean, come on, If it can work for them it can work for anybody. And all relationships are work, regardless of who is doing most of it. You think you know what’s going to happen, good thing we aren’t close or I would put a Benjamin on it just for the principle. You are closed-minded and will, I hope, live to eat your words, okay,okay!

Enjoy. Good for you. ((Jealous)) {+0)

It’ll come back to bite in the long run - no condemnation, here. when you’re older yet he’ll still be young. . . You know the rest. The heartbreak will be yours.