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My girlfriend is a wacko!

ok here’s the gist of this situation. im in a long distance relationship. my gf lives in illinois and i live in ny. im going to college and she insists on being with me but i dont want to deal with her controlling attitude. she threatens me, telling me that when we break up she’s going to pay someone else to hurt my loved ones. what should i do? how do i go about getting her arrested because i know this is a crime and i want to have fun in college! thank you

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 169 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Call the cops and tell them. But you have to do it otherwise she’s not going to take you seriously. That’s serious crap that she’s trying to pull. Unstable people need to be dealt with post haste.

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7 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

well i could file the police report nearby but how does that solve her stopping this from happening? i want out but she wants a hit. sounds like a movie but im serious. is there any way she can be arrested for it?

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k.henderson offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

WHY are you going out with a craaaazy *****?!
just kidding.
Call the police. Black mail isn’t exactly something to look for in a woman.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 169 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
well i could file the police report nearby but how does that solve her stopping this from happening? i want out but she wants a hit. sounds like a movie but im serious. is there any way she can be arrested for it?

Should anything happen to you, they know who to look for right away.

At least that would be a warning to her to stay the f**k away from you!

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lexihope offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

o thats scary lol. get a restraining order. call the cops

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7 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

ok so when i file the police report, what happens? should i stop talking to her? and what if you goes through with what she is saying? thats what im worried about. like i wish she could just get arrested already and go away! lol

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7 months, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

oh yeah and how does the police report system work? what happens following a report? also, what should i do to never talk to her again? will i be safe? i dont know what to do

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