my boyfriend broke up with me and didnt give me any reason besides the fact that he wanted to be “really good friends”.

nicoleee(:

my boyfriend broke up with me and didnt give me any reason besides the fact that he wanted to be “really good friends”.

i told him that was fine and tried to move on, but all these girls keep talking to him now and he seems to be way over me and its only been a week and a half i think. i just want to know possible reasons he broke up with me and how to get over him asap. i want to be happy again and not miss him and dread on what happened. any advice!?

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Mr. P 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Do the reasons really matter? I mean, done is done and fun is fun, right? Just be glad that it ended on good terms and realize that you have a long life ahead; getting hung up on every single person would be a big pain in the fanny. It’s up to you to be realistic and happy, unconditionally.

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nicoleee(: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

yeah i guess your right i just feel like somethings wrong with me i guess thats what is really bothering mee. thank you though.

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erios201 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

sometimes guys take things lightly while girls are highly emotional. its ok to feel a bit sad and regretting but just move on and be happy. there are many fish in the sea

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nicoleee(: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

yeah i mean im trying my best but it just keeps getting harder instead of easier i guess.

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Mr. P 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

nicoleee(: wrote:
i just feel like somethings wrong with me i guess thats what is really bothering mee.

Nothing’s wrong with being human. :-) Having a little self perception and inquiry is good; you just need to sort out what’s fact and what is exaggeration.

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nicoleee(: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

mhmm i understand. it just takes time i guess right?

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Mr. P 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Indeed, time is a good friend for these problems.

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nicoleee(: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

i suppose so.

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erios201 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

Don’t forget to be optimistic. Life will certainly have its ups and downs but how you respond to them will determine the person you really are. From what I see on the feed, you’re a good person so don’t let one guy determine anything. One man’s lost is another’s gain =)

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nicoleee(: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

awhhh, i mean im really trying and i try thinking of that kinda stuff but something always reminds me of him or something ya know? i just wish someone better would come along faster.

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erios201 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

Yeah, I understand. Patience is a virtue and the more effort you put into moving on and realizing the better aspects of life, the more luck you’ll start to have.

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nicoleee(: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

i hope sooo.

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userbunny 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 11 minutes after post)

dude, i don’t know why these people are trying to tell you that was he did was totally cool.

he should have given you a reason. and if hes already talking with other girls - thats your reason. he wants to see other people, but have you as a friend so he doesn’t lose you completely.

i’m sorry if i sound pessimistic, or bitchy, but this is pretty much the reality of your situation.

i say give it a rest for awhile so that you can think things over, and then be his friend. he might end up wanting you back later but remember that EVERYONE deserves to know why they’re being broken up with.

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Korwinn 54 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (8 hours, 18 minutes after post)

There are so many ways to take this. For one maybe it wasn’t clicking just right for him. Maybe he felt that you two would be better off as friends (it does happen) than romantically. If he emphasized friends instead of being “we can still be friends” which, is just a nice cop out, I would assume he likes you as a person and still cares for you to an extent. Two he just wants to see what else is out there… Personally, the reason doesn’t matter it happened. My advice for you is to not let him get to you. Stop talking to him and try to move on as best as possible. Distancing yourself will make it better and easier for you. Also try and think of everything as if it happened to a friend of yours and what advice you would give them. It helps by keeping the emotions out of your decisions and you can think clearly. Emotions cloud the mind and make you do dumb things…

Go out with your friends.

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nicoleee(: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (14 hours, 21 minutes after post)

wow. everyone is making really good points. and thanks so much for that. i know its going to take time i just want to get over him like now lol but yeah thanks again guys. any more advice?

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (4 days, 5 hours after post)

hi i am on the same possition

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

kinda same thing with me a while ago… my girlfriend broke up with me cuz i was too nice of a guy… arnt you sposto be nice to your girlfriend? well anyways you could tell him straight up that you want to know why he broke up or something like that.

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