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About a year and a half ago, I got my best girlfriend and my best guy friend together.
They’ve been together ever since. Recently, they just broke up. I’ve been stuck in the middle of their break-up, and I can’t seem to find common ground with my best girlfriend, even though my best guy friend did sincerely dump her and break her heart.
I found it awkward that I just couldn’t bring myself to blame my guy friend, until I realized I’m secretly falling for him. Me and him have been best friends for over 3 years, and the connection we have/ have had is incredible. we have so much in common, and I have always harbored jealousy for their relationship.
My best girlfriend is still upset from the break-up, which only happened about a month and a half ago. It would kill her if she knew I was falling for the guy who broke her heart.
Because of my utter silence, my best guy friend has already moved onto another girl. They are becoming involved, but not quite in a relationship yet. I don’t know if I should say something to him now or later? Or if it’s even worth saying something to him about my feelings?
I’m guessing maybe i should just forget about it. I would never want to hurt my best friend by exposing my feelings for her ex-boyfriend. I want to support her through this break-up, but it is becoming way too hard for me. HELP ME.
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