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I have a girlfriend who might

be pregnant. Idk if she really is.
She took her pill 3 hours late and the next day, we had sex (wednesday).
She started her period friday but its irregular.
She is starting to bleed then stopping. Saturday night she was bleeding a lot and sunday, she stopped.

This hasnt happened to her before.

Is she pregnant?

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jcd offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

I doubt it. But you can get a pregnancy test just to be sure.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 4 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

Could be. She should get a pregnancy test. You can just buy it at a grocery store.

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4 months, 1 week ago (25 minutes after post)

Then whats with her weird period?

and like when we were done having sex, i took off the condom and then tried twisting off the top to closr the opening but then some semen got onto my fingers. just a few drops tho.

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hateTHEhate offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

I highly doubt it. She got her period so more than likely, she is not pregnant.

Irregular periods happen quite often due to plain old stress. Dont worry about it - try to calm her and help her think about other things.

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Anonymous #
4 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

So is it that if she got her period, then she should be fine?
What about those girls who still get periods during pregnancy?

I twisted off the opening to the condom to close it it off but semen got onto my fingers. Like it squirted onto my fingers. only a few drops but this scared me.

Is it possible for semen to exit the opening of the condom if it is on me? it doesnt feel loose or anything, its on pretty snug.

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hateTHEhate offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (49 minutes after post)

Look - dont worry about it.

I mean - its possible, but not probable. Just be careful, use contraceptives properly and you’re good to go.

If you guys are really that freaked - go get a pregnancy test. It will be a waste of $10, but it will ease your mind.

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Anonymous #
4 months, 1 week ago (57 minutes after post)

when can she use the pregnancy test?

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hateTHEhate offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

whenever she likes.

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Anonymous #
4 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

i mean like is there a certain time when the results are most accurate?

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

read the instructions on the box

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Anonymous #
4 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 4 minutes after post)

okay. thank you.
with my situation, whats the likelihood of her getting pregnant?

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hateTHEhate offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 9 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
okay. thank you.
with my situation, whats the likelihood of her getting pregnant?

like 20-1. or like 50-1. Not likely is the point.

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Anonymous #
4 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 12 minutes after post)

is it possible though for semen to leave the entrance of the condom while it is on and its quite snug?

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 4 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 50 minutes after post)

Anything’s possible but very unlikely.

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Anonymous #
4 months, 1 week ago (4 hours, 19 minutes after post)

is the ring at the base designed to not let any out?

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