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HE COULD BE THE ONE-HELP!

Okay so i’ve known him since we were 7, and he is my best guy friends cousin. He recently worked at my summer camp… and i was hooked! he isn’t just gorgeous, he is funny, sweet, he respects me, and he will even give me a hug… and i’m comfortable around him. He isn’t like the other guys, he isn’t a douche bag to me! and we have so much in common, we even want to go to the same college! The problem? He lives 2 hours away and we are only 13 years old, so its not like we can drive to eachother houses everytime we want to see the other one. And i think he might like me, too. I’ll catch him starring at me sometimes, but he won’t look away, he’ll just stare with a blank look on his face, and his head tilted as though he is trying to figure me out. But then he will smile and look away. When he is in town, we are always together, and i love talking to him. I can’t text him because i don’t have a phone, and he can’t IM me because he doesn’t have a screenname. How can i contact him without it being akward or stalkerish? Do you think he likes me back? Should i wait until i’m older and see if i still care about him to have a serious relationship?
IS IT JUST ANOTHER CRUSH???

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Rocco. online Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

Wait until you’re older. :)
Good things come to those who wait.

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TWILIAZgeroUIT offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

You are 13? Take my advice and DON’T get mixed up with a guy. You are to young.

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TWILIAZgeroUIT offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

Rocco. wrote:
Wait until you’re older. :)
Good things come to those who wait.

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obryan offline Verified User (4 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

lol. 13. I had a lot of crushes when I was 13. Wait til you are older to find the one you want to be with. Chances are you guys will not end up together in the end if you decide to go for it now. And please if you have not already, wait for the right time if you know what I mean. College is a good time to be looking for mister right.

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

My opinion is that if you like him and you feel that he like you back and he is a good kid, ‘who think about college, and to build a future…, ‘ stay in contact with him as friends and let him know that you both have a long way togo in life;to wait because of the age, ‘but a match like him will be hard to find and don’t worry so much you are only 13 have fun, with your friend in the best save way posible but dont let go of such a good relationship.

Ps…looks does not matter much, is the person inside and the way you feel about him

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cRazd&cOnfused offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (41 minutes after post)

Everyone thanks so much for your comments, we r interested in the same college so maybe we will meet up again there and who knows! But does anyone have any ideas on how to keep in touch?

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TWILIAZgeroUIT offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (2 hours after post)

NO.

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Rocco. online Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (12 hours, 17 minutes after post)

cRazd&cOnfused wrote:
Everyone thanks so much for your comments, we r interested in the same college so maybe we will meet up again there and who knows! But does anyone have any ideas on how to keep in touch?

Email? You can call/talk to him over your house phone. It doesn’t need to be with a cell. Make plans to hang out, just as friends. You can still have a friend of the opposite gender. Plus, if you get close now, it gives a better opportunity for a solid relationship when you get older.

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cRazd&cOnfused offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (13 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Rocco. wrote:

cRazd&cOnfused wrote:
Everyone thanks so much for your comments, we r interested in the same college so maybe we will meet up again there and who knows! But does anyone have any ideas on how to keep in touch?

Email? You can call/talk to him over your house phone. It doesn’t need to be with a cell. Make plans to hang out, just as friends. You can still have a friend of the opposite gender. Plus, if you get close now, it gives a better opportunity for a solid relationship when you get older.

thanks! i’ll try it :)

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