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Being single again.

Oh yes, i am single again. It feels weird.. but the same.
I just ended my relationship of 6monthes and 4days.
We were on the phone for about 4 hours, i broke up with him in the first hour. I don’t understand why he didn’t.. hang up i guess.
He didn’t even.. try to change my mind.
Im alone alone now i suppose. I mean, i was alone in that relationship but now i don’t even have that false feeling that i have someone.
He was my 4th boyfriend, i am infact 16.
We didn’t have a good relationship; if thats even what you would like to call it.
During school, thats basically the only time we saw eachother.
Then summer came. i saw him.. 4 times. he called every 4 days, we would talk for about a half hour or until his parents yelled at him to get off the phone.
We knew nothing about eachother, so it just made sense to leave him.
Actually.. i knew more about him than he did me. I asked him when my birthday was and he gave me his exes.
Feh. So now what? I don’t feel like dating anymore. I am always dissapointed in the end. Or the beging aha.

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ni offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

You’re 16. Go do whatever else, haha. “Relationships” are for when you’re older to worry about.

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coppersbeach9 offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

ni wrote:
You’re 16. Go do whatever else, haha. “Relationships” are for when you’re older to worry about.

This is true..xDD My life hasn’t changed at all. It’s kinda ridiculous.

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ni offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

Your priorities will change so much anyways by the time you get to an age that it makes sense to be in a relationship.

For now, just go screw around. And if you’re religious or have morals/self respect, then don’t “screw” around. d=]

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coppersbeach9 offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 4 minutes after post)

lmaoo, well now that im un-taken i suppose i can hang out with guys and not be accusdededed of cheating :D behold; the upside of being single.

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Dorian offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (3 hours, 7 minutes after post)

There are many, many upsides of being single, and you’re still young enough to take full advantage. You go girl!

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guster32 offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (3 hours, 22 minutes after post)

Take a break until you find someone worthy of you, he didn’t sound like he was very attentive and you may have done all of the work. You don’t have to have a boyfriend all of the time. Don’t you like feeling free and able to see who you want and do what you want without worrying what some guy is gonna say? Take a break and learn to like being with yourself, because trust me, you can be married and still be alone. Love being who you are and spending time with you. That attracts others into your life that want to know more about you. Relationships at your age should not be a downer and keep you feeling empty, they should be fun and exciting and EASY, not hard work, on one person’s side and none on the others. You have plenty of time to get bogged down in the adult world of having to be somewhere on time everyday and keeping the relationship fresh while you work. Play time is now, and you should enjoy your freedom, and the choices you have.

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elizgriffin1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (3 days, 21 hours after post)

would you have stayed if he had tried to stop you?

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