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I wish I knew. Right know I think my mission is to be confused, depressed and lonely. Yea, that’s my mission because I’m so good at it.

Aw man chin up Jr. :) You’re quite the cool.
My mission in life is to make money. Lots of money. By doing something I like to do. And if not that, by any other means necessary.

Save the world, get the girl and have just enough time at the end for a witty one-liner. Oooh yeah!

marti wrote:
Hmmm…
Jr.
You are not really alone on this one.
In times of doubt I sometimes (like now) use some tricks.
Might sound mumbo jumbo but they do work.

If there is a thought you dont want to deal with now (a particular moment) ask it to go away. But give it a designated time to come back.
So, you have a lot on your mind like work, relation, religion all these big things.
Set of a time in the near future for each of these, like 5-15 Saturday afternoon.
When one of these thoughts pops up in your head you say loud (no not screaming but a clear word) “silent not now”. Or you come up with your own version.
It will not work the first time, but after a few repetitions it actually works. And it works best if you have set of a time for the thought. It actually looks like thoughts have a need of existences, and if you just try to kill it with an all out “silent, go away” it will fight for survival. If you give it a little time it will be content and not argue so much with you.

Ill be back later with other home made stuff I found out is working.

BR
MWH

Ahhh, thanks marti :)

I guess my mission in this life is to help others, mostly to help children and problematic teenagers.
I guess my mission in life is to care about those who are near me and those who ask for help. To be there for others, to listen to them and to give them care , love attention, even if they never give that to me. For me it’s like, help in first place even if my own needs get down, even if someone seems just to use my care I still do care about them, cause God is going to care about me instead of them too:)

Jr. wrote:
I wish I knew. Right know I think my mission is to be confused, depressed and lonely. Yea, that’s my mission because I’m so good at it.

dear i feel the same way right now.. but that’s just a matter of time hopefully, i guess your and mine and other’s mission is to get over this situation, besides everything everyone’s mission is to be happy
i seem to be good at it also, **** good… but it’s not something will feel during our whole life, so head up, make your mission to be changing these feelings
if you need someoen to talk to or support then I’m here

marti wrote:
My mission is to define
I want.
I dare.
I can.

This is what I want.
I dare to take the consequence of my actions.
I can do what I want.

Usually 2 and 3 gets in the way.
At the moment I don’t dare to break up with my girlfriend and I don’t know how to do it in a good way.

What I really want is to break up and keep her as a friend. But I just get tangeled up in consequences and clumsy words.

well being honest is the best way… but sometimes when people feel hurt don’t really appreciate honesty :(
you know what, life is full of missed chances , so maybe dare to do things you need to
good luck

Jr. wrote:
I wish I knew. Right know I think my mission is to be confused, depressed and lonely. Yea, that’s my mission because I’m so good at it.

you should change your mission then cause in the end this is ur life, you decide ur mission…

mine is simple

helping the less fortunate ^_^

i fear i have never really known this… i hate the feeling of thinking i shud be so much more…like time is running out. and mostly i hate the thought that millions of other people wish and think they should be so much more. i hate that life seems to be revolved around money…but yet…it kind of does. i constantly wish i had money then i could do the things i wish, want, love and could help. Then be the person i wana be.
i hate not knowing….

I think…
i would like to teach (primary school children)
id love to write childrens books and poems
travel the united states
raise money for the world…animals children, africa, global warming, hospitals etc
give to my family who have done nothing but work hard all their lives

…an easy option would be to win the lottery!!!!!

Hi Emma,

hope this helps-
you are already the person you want to be - how could you be anything else?

you are everything, everything you see around you - is for you.

you are not the fear that you feel, or even the hate of the feeling of being inadequate, or, even the feeling of that hate (blimey does this make sense?) you are none of those things - they are just feelings and emotions - not You!

You are separate from that voice in your head that says ‘You should be more/better/different etc etc etc’

You can already do the things you wish to do - because you are already doing them!
- live by doing what you can do right now, rather than living for a future event that does not exist.

It is all easy because you are already doing it, right now.