Is it better to be loved by all or feared by all?

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Is it better to be loved by all or feared by all?

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Denver, CO, US | 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Post a replyme personlly always choose the fear method, and slowly work towrd loved… that way everyone still respects you… bt thats jsu me

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Denver, CO, US | 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

why so?

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

loved by all

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

depends on you ethiks, me, i’d rule with an iron hand

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

love :D

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (19 hours, 43 minutes after post)

Fear. Might makes right. Period.

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (1 day after post)

Fear doesn’t make you vulnerable to anything when you consider it for a moment. If people fear you then they don’t necessarily have to hate you either. Sometimes fear can even draw out respect, more so than love can. How difficult would it be for someone to be loved by the world? You would first have to demonstrate your love to everyone and they would have to be pleased by you and your decisions. That would not be an easy task. Yet finally, you would have to uphold your love for everyone and not let it slip. Love seems to require more effort and could even bring about superficial displays, whereas the ability to make people fear you comes from pride, and pride comes with ease.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (1 week after post)

I don’t believe you can be either one! I think many men will choose feared by all, by some will say loved by all. It depends on your character and who you are and your self-image, and also who you want others to see when you portray yourself! I would definitely say loved by all. I am a very caring individual and would hate for people to fear me. If you are looking for power over intimidation, try fear! LOL

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

Love.

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Edmonton, AB, CA | 1 month, 1 week ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

To be fearfully loved by all. My wife follows this mantra.

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