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The guy in question is chinese but looks caucasian.

As for me, I’m chinese/indian mixture (i speak chinese though). dif ppl have dif interpretations of me. some say i look portuguese, some chinese, some say indonesian, some say caucasian.

For the past few college events, just to keep it short,he’s always been looking at me, if he thinks i’m not aware he stares for quite abit, but upclose when we have eye contact he quickly avoids it. walking ard my vicinity, he doesnt touch me but he stands close. if i brush past him he doesnt move. and theres this one incident when i had to go help carry stuff, he was quietly sitting behind when he suddenly rushed forward to open the door and help me get the things instead. we had the most awkward conversation ever, he was pretty subdued and quiet. he’s not usually VERY noisy, but hes sociable. and when we were dancing in a bar once, we ended up beside each other, he kept looking over at me but neither of us made a move, suddenly he walked out. we dont have much interaction opportunity, so its usually just staring and standing close for him.

i added him on facebook. but i have a slightly indian name. ppl who dont know me personally would get really confused, if you get what i mean. Assuming he does still like me, would this be a turn off? =/

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t think so… But i’m not exactly sure what difference it makes if you’re part indian or not… If he’s interested he’s interested. Now if he’s been raised or has a slight racial prejudice against Indian people then he might.

Try talking to him about it.

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