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Was breaking up the right choice?
So I have been with this girl for about 2 months. When i first met her she had a boyfriend and immediately we had an attraction. We talked for a few weeks and then I invited her over to my condo to just hang out(while she still had the bf, i know it was a bad idea!)and we ended up having sex. She left her boyfriend for me within the next few days. So weve been together for about a month or so after that and things were great. The last week or so were filled with lots of fighting over stupid things, especially things about her that really bugged me and needed to be addressed. She was very pushy, stubborn and seemed to always need social interaction whether a bar or a party on a daily thing. She did nothing to compromise and I couldn’t deal with it anymore so I ended it with us.Trust was a big issue, especially that she did cheat on her ex bf. At first she was very upset, but we had sort of an understanding that it was more of a break than anything. This was about 2 nights ago and she now seems fine and happy with her space. And me it is the complete opposite, I am having big doubts about what I did. Is this normal, should I move on with my life, or should I try to make things better? Am I more upset because she is taking this so well. Any ideas? Another thing i should mention is that while in the relationship I wasn’t scared whatsoever about losing her, in fact i flirted alot with girls and was never jealous(she saw none of that though). Am i ruining a possible good thing or is my mind playing tricks. I didnt mention she is also very attractive. Any help would be great
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