Should i tell him yet? - Help.com

Now. Make sure they’re not drinking or on drugs when you tell them.

I agree. Go ahead and tell him. It’s been half a year. It will be fine.

its now or never…the later you leave it the harder it will get

Firstly, I wouldn’t rush into anything serious with this new guy, especially living with him, more for the sake of your children than yourself. My mother was with a lot of guys when I was a child and I personally found it quite uprooting making attachments to someone and losing them. Take it slow with this guy as rushing intimacy just shows that you are trying to replace something that you’ve lost. If you are reluctant to tell your ex about your new relationship this is probably the case, I would perhaps try and rebuild this relationship, if is too far gone however, perhaps try to focus on comforting your children as this time will be difficult for them.

but you should still tell ur ex as early as possible…you want to keep things civil between you two for your kids sake, and not telling him might fire something up.

It’s hard to tell someone that yes your time is over together and that you are in love with someone else. I applaud your honesty and most of all your caring for the man you are leaving behind. He should appreciate the fine woman you are. Wish him well in finding someone that will love him and care about him and bring all the wonders of love into his life.