People really need to chill.
I see it here everyday - people going over and over what is bothering them - soaking in the things that upset them, going over all the things they dont have and all the things they are not.
We all get f-ed over, we all lose, we all fail - we all gain, we all win - its all ups and downs my friends, ups and downs.
Work with what you’ve got and ride it out until its over.
There are only 2 facts of life
1. Everything changes; change is inevitable.
2. You will die!
Enjoy what you have while you have it. I’m not aiming to start a revolution - just listen up and chill out.
When you worry your face will frown and that will bring everybody down, so don’t worry, be happy.
Life is too short so love the one you got.
Lovin’s what I got, it’s within my reach.
It all comes back to you you’re going to get what you deserve. Try and test that, you’re bound to get served.
Lovin’, is what I got, I said remember that.
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Yes. I have heard it said that what you focus on - that is what you become. To an extent that is true.
A. Einstein : “Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I’m not sure about the universe.”
Gynan Tonix wrote:
A. Einstein : “Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I’m not sure about the universe.”
ha ha ha
Ok.. im sorry i started that post then. Yes we all have issues but i dont see how we can all just go on living and ignore them. I cant ignore my problems or the things that irritate me. I do most of the time but i have had enough of the lack of respect latley. People turning on people makes me angry.
~willard~ wrote:
Ok.. im sorry i started that post then. Yes we all have issues but i dont see how we can all just go on living and ignore them. I cant ignore my problems or the things that irritate me. I do most of the time but i have had enough of the lack of respect latley. People turning on people makes me angry.
Control the things you can - accept the things you cant and let it slide.
I just dont enjoy when people stress themselves to the breaking point over things that don’t deserve so much attention.
But it wasn’t directed at you my dear.
Bernard Madoff.
Don’t leave until tomorrow all the people you can rip off today!
usurper wrote:
~willard~ wrote:
Ok.. im sorry i started that post then. Yes we all have issues but i dont see how we can all just go on living and ignore them. I cant ignore my problems or the things that irritate me. I do most of the time but i have had enough of the lack of respect latley. People turning on people makes me angry.Control the things you can - accept the things you cant and let it slide.
I just dont enjoy when people stress themselves to the breaking point over things that don’t deserve so much attention.
But it wasn’t directed at you my dear.
I know it wasnt but i feel you started this post because of it.
~willard~ wrote:
usurper wrote:
~willard~ wrote:
Ok.. im sorry i started that post then. Yes we all have issues but i dont see how we can all just go on living and ignore them. I cant ignore my problems or the things that irritate me. I do most of the time but i have had enough of the lack of respect latley. People turning on people makes me angry.Control the things you can - accept the things you cant and let it slide.
I just dont enjoy when people stress themselves to the breaking point over things that don’t deserve so much attention.
But it wasn’t directed at you my dear.
I know it wasnt but i feel you started this post because of it.
So? You inspired me! That’s a good thing.
Let us not turn this post into another argument.
“Can’t we all get along?”
Rodney King, L.A. California, April 1992.
littlenick wrote:
Let us not turn this post into another argument.“Can’t we all get along?”
Rodney King, L.A. California, April 1992.
Im sorry if you think that when i show up to a post im going to start an arguement.
To Usurper - Thank you. Im glad i could inspire someone!
littlenick wrote:
Let us not turn this post into another argument.“Can’t we all get along?”
Rodney King, L.A. California, April 1992.
Ha ha no hating allowed! I like your quotes.
I don’t think anybody is going to start an argument. I just don’t like to see posts derailed like I derail them with my annoying sense of humor. I just like to see regular people not upset or unhappy! Period. Sometimes we regular users let someone who has not even been verified or a member for more than a couple of days turn a post into an all out brawl. That makes me sad and angry at the same time.
Let us go and forget about all this negative crap and just keep on smiling.
I love everybody even if some people wish to see me banned forever, maimed, or even dead!
And sometimes just trolls love to get everybody riled up and fighting. And when the fighting begins and they see that the post degenerated into a brawl, they just leave or come on the post as a the cynical trolls that they are.
littlenick wrote:
Let us go and forget about all this negative crap and just keep on smiling.
Tis the spirit of the post.
Hippie67 wrote:
peace, love, and happiness :) 3
and beer, karaoke, pizza and the playboy channel with naked aerobics! :O
littlenick wrote:
and beer, karaoke, pizza and the playboy channel with naked aerobics! :O
friggin hippie…
Gynan Tonix wrote:
littlenick wrote:
and beer, karaoke, pizza and the playboy channel with naked aerobics! :Ofriggin hippie…
he he he he he he he he!
All hippies and otherwise are welcome here….except communists.
what about a communist hippie?
What about a hippie who lives in a commune? Would that not make him a communist?
more like a common nudist..?
Sometimes arguing and insulting can be fun though, especially when you’re arguing with/insulting a slack jawed yokel.
Pepsi wrote:
Sometimes arguing and insulting can be fun though, especially when you’re arguing with/insulting a slack jawed yokel.
It’s only fun if the person can take it.
He seemed to handle it quite well for a while there.
Pepsi wrote:
He seemed to handle it quite well for a while there.
I dont know who “he” is. Littlenick? Well I hope he can take it considering how well he can dish it out.
Lol not littlenick, mesiya ofc. Pretty sure it’s darned near impossibe to insult littlenick on a personal level. At least online.
Pepsi wrote:
Lol not littlenick, mesiya ofc. Pretty sure it’s darned near impossibe to insult littlenick on a personal level. At least online.
Oh that dude who apologized?
Man people get so touchy on this site.
Of course they do, but that’s what makes life interesting! Conflict is the spice of life man. Resolve is good too, but if we all got along and agreed with each other, well what would be the fun in that? ;)
it’s quite easy to get personal with littlenick.
just try saying something nasty about his chihuahua…
Gynan Tonix wrote:
it’s quite easy to get personal with littlenick.just try saying something nasty about his chihuahua…
I think I’ve mocked his sense of humor on occasion…I think that gets to him. Littlenick aside…
Pepsi wrote:
Of course they do, but that’s what makes life interesting! Conflict is the spice of life man. Resolve is good too, but if we all got along and agreed with each other, well what would be the fun in that? ;)
I agree.
Its just those folk who cant agree to disagree that drive me nutty
usurper wrote:
Its just those folk who cant agree to disagree that drive me nutty
Well I agree with that. Crap, now my point is moot. lol.
Hippie67 wrote:
f%#! a communist
Where?!!!
usurper wrote:
Pepsi wrote:
He seemed to handle it quite well for a while there.I dont know who “he” is. Littlenick? Well I hope he can take it considering how well he can dish it out.
I’m sure someone with a sense of humor such as littlenick’s that he can take anything. That guy seems to always be happy, and i love his sence of humor. No matter how down i’ve been feeling he can always make me laugh when i read some of his comments.
Allot of replies, wow. You know, its true what you say. We just need that calm, that balance and serene attitude all the time. But as you say, things always change and the tension of change plays along with our tendency to adapt to change. as hard as it may be, its always the tension to get over the moment or get more out of the moment, that makes us human.
Id love to chill but I am too much attuned with the world around me and I react to every change that occurs or that I may cause.
warm hugs,
Kate.
Not all the time - too much of anything isn’t good for you - life isnt always serene. Sometimes people need to wallow, think, worry to realize things about themselves - which is good - but there comes a point where enough is enough and you just have to accept your circumstances and move on or try to change them into what you want them to be.
Thanks for replying!
why aren’t there more people like you who understand this?
people get so wound up over little things, causing things like road rage, so yea, i agree with you, usurper.
slash wrote:
people get so wound up over little things, causing things like road rage, so yea, i agree with you, usurper.
I read your post. That ******* sucks, dude. I wish I knew just what to say - but the truth is, no one will be able to say anything to you right now that you dont want to hear. The first month will be hard - but I promise you - when something is really, really funny - you’ll life. You’re still alive, after all, even if it doesn’t feel that way right now.
Keep on keeping on. We need people like you!
usurper wrote:
slash wrote:
people get so wound up over little things, causing things like road rage, so yea, i agree with you, usurper.I read your post. That ******* sucks, dude. I wish I knew just what to say - but the truth is, no one will be able to say anything to you right now that you dont want to hear. The first month will be hard - but I promise you - when something is really, really funny - you’ll life. You’re still alive, after all, even if it doesn’t feel that way right now.
Keep on keeping on. We need people like you!
**you’ll LAUGH (but im sure you got that…)
usurper wrote:
slash wrote:
people get so wound up over little things, causing things like road rage, so yea, i agree with you, usurper.I read your post. That ******* sucks, dude. I wish I knew just what to say - but the truth is, no one will be able to say anything to you right now that you dont want to hear. The first month will be hard - but I promise you - when something is really, really funny - you’ll life. You’re still alive, after all, even if it doesn’t feel that way right now.
Keep on keeping on. We need people like you!
thanks. i guess i really more than anything just really need some alone time with my thoughts. That’s the best thing i can do i guess.
slash wrote:
usurper wrote:
slash wrote:
people get so wound up over little things, causing things like road rage, so yea, i agree with you, usurper.I read your post. That ******* sucks, dude. I wish I knew just what to say - but the truth is, no one will be able to say anything to you right now that you dont want to hear. The first month will be hard - but I promise you - when something is really, really funny - you’ll life. You’re still alive, after all, even if it doesn’t feel that way right now.
Keep on keeping on. We need people like you!
thanks. i guess i really more than anything just really need some alone time with my thoughts. That’s the best thing i can do i guess.
Its nice to have someone in the room though. Even if its just to sit with you quietly. How about another friend?
Well i was pretty good friends with her brother. he’s pretty shaken up over the whole thing too.
slash wrote:
Well i was pretty good friends with her brother. he’s pretty shaken up over the whole thing too.
Sit with him. It might feel better somehow to be in the presence of someone who is in the same place as you.
I have yet to meet a philosopher that could patiently endure a toothache…
Its true ! And one day I hope to be as happy as you ! Thank you for every thing and keep spreading the word around because even though we know this we still need to heir it so assure us that its true live, love, die …
Thanks !
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