recently i met this guy, well about a year and a few months ago on a trip to australia.

krista_marlen

recently i met this guy, well about a year and a few months ago on a trip to australia.

i know that we had a connection, and at least a friendship. we are both from canada. weve been in contact sort of on and off since we went there….problem he lives on the other side of canada.im west hes east. weve been texting etcetera. is it possible to have a relationship with someone if they live on the east coast and ur on the west?? what can test it to prove its strong enough to be worth it?i kinda hinted at him that i wanted to visit…i dont know what hes going to say….anyways…thats about all….just wanted to knwo what you guys think..i think its real since weve kept in contact like this. we had a talk last night and i told him how i feel, all he said was ” realistically we cant work”. meaning we live too far away i guess.. that really hurt and now i wonder if i should just not talk to him anymore, i knida thought something might come of this. i kinda was talking to him on like a daily basis then, all of a sudden we stopped talking….i said maybe we could visit eachother and he just basically shwacked that idea. so i dont know.now hes scared off i supposed. anything i can do to get him not ignore me anymore, ive stopped trying
. he was the one instigating getting my phone number and stuff, so i wonder…..does anyone have any advice on how to intise him to start talking to me again??? like playing hard to get in any way?? ideas anyone?

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linuxya 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

Don’t waste your time with this. And playing games is even worse. The problem with long distance is your “relationship” is 99% fantasy. The only way to build a real relationship is to spend loads of face time with a person and see what they are like in all kinds of situations.

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4 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

i tried playing hard to get it didnt help… instead i played it cool, like oh yea no big deal, and that worked out, we just talk like regular now, but i know there will never be nothing, cus when i hinted at it my guy did the same thing, so yea now i guess im happy with just being friends

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

ok…hmm..there was alot i thought when i read ur post…to be honest and not 2 sound discouraging, long distance relationships don’t usualy work unelss ur absolutely in LOVE nd are extremely extremely committed.BUt the point is u can make it work if u reli reli wnt 2.the only way you can contact is by phone, so by not talking to him is probably the worst thing u could do, eventually the phone conversations will just die away and he wont even no or care y u stopped talking. and when he’s half way across the country, enticing him is going to be hard, especially when there could be so many other girls around him. and no offence but if he’s like a player kinda guy ( coz thruthfully u dnt no him) then he may not be interested was maybe just into it for the flick.Or if he is the commttment kinda guy, you could try explainin and taking to him properly one time rather than getting upset and not talking at all.firstly, guys are scared of committment.but if you really like him don’t give up this easily, for all you know he mmight be scared of losing contact as well.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (2 months after post)

yer normally long distance relationship dont work out
but i still have hope because my brother is in a simular boat
talk to him find out if he feels the same way
it depends how much u love him and if ur not goin to let the distance effect it
it will be hard but if u both love each other then u will find a way to make it work
if not theres plenty of fish in the sea

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