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I have attatchment problems…

Well let me start by saying that I’m a 16 year old high school student. And theres this one girl I think I like…and thats a bad thing. Girls don’t fall for me…they just dont, they see me as a nice friend and thats it. This girls I think likes me but Im not sure. The problem is though because most girls that I think like me end up not liking me, so I end up getting way to attatched to them. Then when I find out they don’t like me back I get so depressed and even suicidal at times. I think I like this girl and I don’t want to like her but I can’t help it. No matter how much I tell myself that she doesn’t like me back, I still get this feeling she does…but I know she doesn’t!! So I’m getting attatched and if I do then when it comes crashing down on me I will be very depressed. Please someone help me how to not think about her and stuff….

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pajama_girl offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

i’ve been through rejects myself
and you get over them.
if you really like her just tell her.
and if she doesn’t like you back.
simply put move on. i get sad but i usually start hobbies or hang out with friends,
but i always have someone i tell everything too. sometimes all you need to do is tell someone.

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