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Opinion on being bi

Well, I’m asking this just cuz!xp I dunno, I just want some other peoples opinion on it. But what’s your opinion on being bi? T~T I dunno, I’m pretty sure I’m bi, but I don’t really like it. I dunno why, but I just feel like bad or guilty or something… It like feels really wrong loving Kallie…but I do love her alot… -end- Opinions appreciated! ;) ~ Luv Jamie! (Charlie_Scenes_angel)

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vinnie_16 offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

You are probably feeling guilty or bad as its not yet widely accepted by the majority, however, do what feels best to you. If you feel comfortable being bi then so be it, don’t let anyone tell you what you can and can’t be.

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (18 minutes after post)

you just looking for validation? Well, have as much as I can give.

I think most people are at least a bit bi, but it’s more important what the people around you can cope with. If they are cool with it, yay. If not, then it gets a little bit harder. But still, enjoy it.

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pink sparkle offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (45 minutes after post)

I agree with vinnie_16. You feel guilty cause you think it’s wrong to be bi. You think that it is wrong to be bi, because society tells you so.

Most of the population are not open to that idea yet and they discrimination on people’s gender preferences.

As for me, I think we should as see people as individuals and not judge them on their gender preference. No one should judge anyone in the first place. I’m not bi but I do respect anyone who is bi and those who are not. Gender preference of a person should not be the basis on how that person should be treated.

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Mr. P offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

I think they’re lucky, getting the best of both worlds.

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SayItsSo offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (3 days, 23 hours after post)

i think bi is just what ppl say when they are afraid to say they are gay….personally…

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treepounde offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 day, 22 hours ago (3 months, 4 weeks after post)

hey i was like you for so long and i finally came out to myself and then my wife than some friends and family,i finally am at peace with myself and holding it in for all these years almost killed me,i feel so good now and i am free,like a large stone was taken off me,i can only say ,i am very happy with being myself,and im bi,i dont know what the road is like later but im on cloud nine now,enjoy what you have,you need not feel guilty and ashamed because we are born this way,thank you gary

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