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is it bad…

that no matter what i do im not happy… ive been like this for way too long and i don’t know how to just be happy… i know i should go see a shrink or something but i have a hard time with being able to really talk about whats going on with me… since i was a kid i have felt like i have had to keep it bottled up to make everyone else happy when in all reality i feel like im slowly dying and right now death would be a sweet relief… any advice on how to get happy???

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Hyperpwnage offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Who is telling you this?

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alexandru_email_12 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

be yourself, it’s your only chance - life

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*Im*N*Hate*W/*U* offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

telling me what???

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*Im*N*Hate*W/*U* offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

alexandru_email_12 wrote:
be yourself, it’s your only chance - life

its hard to be myself when i don’t know who i am thats another problem ive spent my whole life trying to be who everyone else wanted me to be so they could be happy but in the end i was the unhappy one who has no idea who i really am

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alexandru_email_12 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

do whetever you like - walk with whetever you like, make whetever you like, just think for a second to you, who likes you, likes you for what you are

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BeeCountry offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

you dont need to see a shrink or anything like that. start talkin to people and dont think bout bein happy or sad an jus be neutral an hopefully after awhile youll start bein happy or at least feel slightly better.

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*Im*N*Hate*W/*U* offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

thanks ill give it a try…

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BeeCountry offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

your welcome :)

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

you need to stop being secretive with how you feel. you need to talk to people and share the grief, in person.

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*Im*N*Hate*W/*U* offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (19 minutes after post)

yea but its hard because im afraid to let certain things from my past be known im not sure how certain people will react and i don’t want to be blamed for things that i know arnt my fault

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alexandru_email_12 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (20 minutes after post)

let them think whetever they like, just be yourself.

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*Im*N*Hate*W/*U* offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (22 minutes after post)

yea but them noing could get people in trouble and cause alot more issues then its worth in my opinion but at the same time keeping it bottled up is really taking an effect on me

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evrythinitypeistaken offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (24 minutes after post)

well then i guess you have to make a decision, continue feeling like sh*t, or exorcise yourself. dont let the past control you.

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BeeCountry offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (25 minutes after post)

you have to find someone you can trust and tell them the small things that you hav bottled up and then after awhile, if they havent blamed you or judged, then you can tell them some bigger things that r bottled

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*Im*N*Hate*W/*U* offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (26 minutes after post)

yea thanks everyone i think i know what i have to do now…

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SayItsSo offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (41 minutes after post)

go see someone and get some meds u’ll be good after that

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Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

yea but the only thing that worries me about the meds is that it will make me worse my dad took meds to help him with his depression and it made him worse and drove him to commit suicide and i know that that is not the only reason he killed himself but i do know that it didn’t help

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