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long distance relationships?

especially that begin as a three week holiday romance… are they worth it?

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*Im*N*Hate*W/*U* offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

are you ever going to actully get to be with this person??

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evrythinitypeistaken offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

wont see them until december… when my friend and i may go back over christmas, and then again in the summer. but by then, actually travelling to see him will make it so serious. but i really like him, and miss him. but its probably holiday magic and glamour. i know the wisest thing is probably to forget it, but ive forgotten holiday romances in the past, and then when i went back, realised how much id lost. im turning 20 and he is 24, so we could make it work… but what if im just making it into something its not…dreaming and hoping and pining and missing…

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*Im*N*Hate*W/*U* offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

maybe you should give it a try so that way you don’t have any regrets you never know how it could turn out…

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evrythinitypeistaken offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (10 minutes after post)

yeah, i guess the key is just not to take it so seriously or be so fatalistic. just to see what happens. thanks for the reply!

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*Im*N*Hate*W/*U* offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

no prob hope it helped :)

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SayItsSo offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

I say don’t go see him unless he’s willing to come see u

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evrythinitypeistaken offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (17 minutes after post)

he is. but he works full time, and its alot easier for me to travel. and we are planning to go away for christmas anyway.

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 158 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (33 minutes after post)

I hate to be the pessimist, but here it goes:

Long distance relationships have the life expectancy of gnat.

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pink sparkle offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (46 minutes after post)

Give it a try. It’s better to give it a try than live the rest of your life asking “what if?”

As to the question is it worth it, it all depends on how things will turn out. If you’re destined for one another, then it’s worth it. You’ll never know until you give it a try.

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4 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Im having the same doubts of a long distace relationship i really think i love the guy but what if we are putting in our all for nothing but i have faith and hope that things will work out and that we will be together like we plan to…

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pink sparkle offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months ago (2 days after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Im having the same doubts of a long distace relationship i really think i love the guy but what if we are putting in our all for nothing but i have faith and hope that things will work out and that we will be together like we plan
to…

Good. Be cautious about loving but never be too afraid to do it. It can go two ways. Don’t be scared that when you give it everything, it won’t work out. Because what if you gave it everything and it did work out? No one knows ahead of what’s to come. But we do know that no one found love if they were to afraid to face the risk of finding it in the first place.

Those who were too afraid to take a step forward never got anywhere.

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