Love still sucks. - Help.com

ive been there. and i think everyone feels like this at some point in their life. basically ive just decided, that no matter how i feel for someone, no matter how much i ‘love’ them, i love myself more. noone is allowed to make me feel like that, until they prove to me that they are worth it- and the proof is that they love me in return.

you’ll find her/she..

Yes, I know, it does not matter that you have millions, or everything you like, being smart of stuff, if you’re alone, you’re not happy - so we are us, humans :-)

Right now, I feel the exact same way, in fact I have been feeling like that for a long long time.. I have everything, family, job, condo, car, degrees, etc. but don’t feel too content because that ‘one’ person has decided to stay away from me.. I fully agree with the first person, that you need to love yourself more, in fact she’s right on target.. the problem with that though is, I had always been the kind who liked myself more, but one time I decided to open up to this girl, I fell for her, she decided to leave me, even though I know by ‘loving’ myself more I can fix this problem, having experience the feeling of love for this girl, prevents me from trying to love myself more, as if I have become addicted to the her thoughts, to loving her. Over time though, I have figured out the best solution to this, before you can start loving yourself more, is to completely cut off the other person out of your life, thoughts, cell phone, etc.. once you do that you can start the healing process.. as I said I don’t follow what I preach because I am addicted to her thoughts, but if you are not, cut that person out of your life, start loving yourself more, set NEW GOALS, and get rid of that ‘empty’ feeling.. good luck!

Its not love that sucks . I dont mean to be cruel but as long as you believe the world should revolve around you , you have set yourself to be sadly discouraged or worse. In my opinion the primary essence of love is to serve and not so much being served. I know that God for instance has given me a talent to sing and I am pretty competent guitar player. I have sung and played in Germany, Switzterland, Holland, Canada, Calif, Florida and so forth.I ve been monetarily paid most of my life . For the last year and a half I have been taken a musical predisposition or talent and am giving it away at church. Its an opportunity to serve or really express love through serving. Its not about me. I am going to take a wild guess that your wants and expectations if you had a magic wand would always be met. But I can tell you its not going to happen. I hope you look into the claims and signifigance of the life and death { an example of love} of Jesus Christ, Gods love offering which removes condemnation and passionalely offers mercy followed by grace and forgivness. Pretty wonderful. Find a church and consider learning to love without risk or fear of rejection. Hope I helped you in some measure to look away from your self and away from what our world and culture shouts at us and to look away to Jesus Christ. Take care

nlher wrote:
Its not love that sucks . I dont mean to be cruel but as long as you believe the world should revolve around you , you have set yourself to be sadly discouraged or worse. In my opinion the primary essence of love is to serve and not so much being served. I know that God for instance has given me a talent to sing and I am pretty competent guitar player. I have sung and played in Germany, Switzterland, Holland, Canada, Calif, Florida and so forth.I ve been monetarily paid most of my life . For the last year and a half I have been taken a musical predisposition or talent and am giving it away at church. Its an opportunity to serve or really express love through serving. Its not about me. I am going to take a wild guess that your wants and expectations if you had a magic wand would always be met. But I can tell you its not going to happen. I hope you look into the claims and signifigance of the life and death { an example of love} of Jesus Christ, Gods love offering which removes condemnation and passionalely offers mercy followed by grace and forgivness. Pretty wonderful. Find a church and consider learning to love without risk or fear of rejection. Hope I helped you in some measure to look away from your self and away from what our world and culture shouts at us and to look away to Jesus Christ. Take care

Um, yah about that, the thing is I don’t want all that stuff that I do have, I would gladly give it all up (except family) for him, because I love him so much.