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She isn’t responding to me.

We were planning on meeting up at the library today. She said she didn’t know what time it was gonna happen. I told her to find out as soon as she could. I texted her today asking her what time she wanted to go. She didn’t respond. It’s been like 2 hours. I texted her like 8 times. She doesn’t want to talk to me anymore! Now I’m sad!

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breezy. offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

hmm. make some new awesome plans to forget about it? so that if she talks to you about it later you can be like “well its fine, i was out doing ______”

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

If and when she gets a hold of you, just act all excite and say “Oh, my God, you won’t believe what you missed! I am having such a great time! Well, gotta go my new friends are calling me! I will talk to you another day! Bye.” And leave it at that.

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breezy. offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

^ yeah. what littlenick said. =D

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

Don’t fret over someone who does not want to see you. Make your own parade and be the leader of the pack!!!!

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breezy. offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

are you the leader of the pack little nick? haha

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

And when you say “we were planning” sounds more like “you were plannig.” Because it does not sound like she made any plans at all. Move on!

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

breezy. wrote:
are you the leader of the pack little nick? haha

Now and forever! :)

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Chrissyqueen99 offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Text her saying that you are sad because you really wanted to see her but it didn’t happen.

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Golden Jack75 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

give up

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breezy. offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

i disagree. dont make her feel guilty, because honestly she seems to be the type that doesnt really care how youre feeling right now.

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4 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

maybe her phone died

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LoneWulf offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
If and when she gets a hold of you, just act all excite and say “Oh, my God, you won’t believe what you missed! I am having such a great time! Well, gotta go my new friends are calling me! I will talk to you another day! Bye.” And leave it at that.

even if your watching re-runs of family guy pretend like your having a blast.

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Lateefahwhitfiel offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (41 minutes after post)

Stop texting her and stop jumping to conclusions, maybe she is tied up with family, think of it this way she agreed to meet up with you initially so she must want to, maybe it cant happen now, but if it was meant to happen it will. you have to learn to look on the bright side of things like this. but in the mean time, while you wait to see what happens, do not text her again. go out and do something to take your mind off of it until she contacts you.

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