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I have an ex boyfriend that is now my bestfriend but the problem is me and him are starting to get closer and closer and we have both told eachother that we still having feelings for one another! But that problem is i have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend.. he said that as soon as i am ready to get back together he will be there but im nervouse that i will make the wrong dicision breaking up with my current boyfriend for him because the reason our relationship ended last time was because he cheated on me but he promised that he made a mistake and it will never happen again! Please give me some advice on what i should do i really love this boy??

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*Im*N*Hate*W/*U* offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

do you really believe that he wont cheat again??

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (22 minutes after post)

yes i really do beleive he wouldnt do it again!

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*Im*N*Hate*W/*U* offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (24 minutes after post)

then do what you think is going to be best for you and make you happy do you think you’d be happier with him than your current bf?

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (27 minutes after post)

i think so i mean my current boyfriend never has time for me and he is always with his friends like i havent seen him in 2 weeks and its about to be 3 cause i am on vacation and he didnt want to even see me befor i went and its like my ex has been with me all last wee befor i left!

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*Im*N*Hate*W/*U* offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (29 minutes after post)

well then you are just going to have to make the desicion on whether you can really trust your ex enough to take him back….

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (29 minutes after post)

yeahh

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*Im*N*Hate*W/*U* offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (32 minutes after post)

sorry if i wasn’t much help but this is just one of those situations where you have to decide whats going to be the right one and from the way you make it sound your bf isn’t the greatest and you ex is tryin but just remember to take all things into consideration before making your descion so you don’t end up cheated on again and hurt…

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An Unknown Location | 4 months ago (36 minutes after post)

yeahh. lol i just dont know what to do i dont wanna get hurt and i dont want my voyfriend to get hurt i just dont wanna regret my dicision ughh i hate this haha but you were alot of help

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*Im*N*Hate*W/*U* offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 4 months ago (54 minutes after post)

well i wish you luck in making your descion and i hope it turns out to be the right one for you =)

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