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Friends don’t leave friends with $1000 debts.

Hello there. It’s really hard to know who is a true friend and who is not. i found this out recently. I am a 19 year old college student supporting herself on her own—estranged from parents since young. My roommate was living with her boyfriend w/ me for the month of June because I couldn’t find any roommates for that month and she said they would help pay my rent. So 2 and a half weeks in, she dissapears. My kitchen was almost cleared out, all my food dwindled down. I even noticed she took some of my beauty products. I come home one night and their room is cleared out, no trace. So I call her but she tells me she’s not responsible and blocks my number. She wasn’t on the lease so now I’ve still got $878.44 left to pay as my hours were cut at work and again, I have no financial support from my family. Any money would be greatly appreciated. I have been sellling all my possesions, I have not bought any food for the past month–living on what I had left.

I have been trying everything…data entry, cash crate, send surveys, everything to scrape up little cash to pay this debt off. Please, I really need help there’s not much else I can do. If I cannot pay this debt soon, I will be kicked out and as an out of state student I have nowhere to go. Thank you.

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Hello there. I am a 19 year old college student supporting herself on her own—estranged from parents since young. My roommate was living with her boyfriend w/ me for the month of June because I couldn’t find any roommates for that month and she said they would help pay my rent. So 2 and a half weeks in, she dissapears. My kitchen was almost cleared out, all my food dwindled down. I even noticed she took some of my beauty products. I come home one night and their room is cleared out, no trace. So I call her but she tells me she’s not responsible and blocks my number. She wasn’t on the lease so now I’ve still got $878.44 left to pay as my hours were cut at work and again, I have no financial support from my family. Any money would be greatly appreciated. I have been sellling all my possesions, I have not bought any food for the past month–living on what I had left.

I have been trying everything…data entry, cash crate, send surveys, everything to scrape up little cash to pay this debt off. Please, I really need help there’s not much else I can do. If I cannot pay this debt soon, I will be kicked out and as an out of state student I have nowhere to go. Thank you.

fragilelikechin changed the tags on this post: they were "San Francisco, lease, rent, pain, debt, Roommate" 3 months, 4 weeks ago.

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fragilelikechin offline Verified User (3 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

i found a few co-ops or these things in which you get to eat the plants that grow on government property like peach trees and such. But I am really worried about my rent though. I dont mind looking like a waif as long as there is a roof over my head. If I get evicted I have no where to go except the streets with the already overbearing homeless of SF. Thank you though.

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mz.mo offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

Lutheran social services?

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fragilelikechin offline Verified User (3 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

what is that exactly?

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 4 weeks ago (5 hours, 26 minutes after post)

afraid no one here is going to give you money, have you talked to the landlord and let him know what happened?
and have you any way to get in contact with the girl? to at least just give her the almightiest bitchslap ever?

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